How long have you been married? If the love died, how did it die? Why are you staying in the marriage if it is dead? How do you bring love back to life again?
2006-11-29 04:29:08 · 17 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in love with my spouse. I fell out of love with my ex-husband though. We had no common interests, nothing to talk about. Find something you and your husband can share together. Pick a TV show and make a point to watch it together. Read a book together. Take up skydiving. Take a class together. Anything to open the lines of communication. Talking is the most important thing you can do for your relationship.
2006-11-29 04:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 5 wonderful years, and love grows every day of my life. I have a 5 month old boy, and believe me, he has been a blessing, because we where one for each other, but now is like we spend more time together, we do the things for the baby together, is like everything we do is together. Before was almost the same, but I use to spend more time at work, because my job at that time demanded a lot of hours and a lot of travel, but since my wife got pregnant, I quit that job and got another.
2006-11-29 12:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pablo R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married to the same person since 1967-you do the math-Been in love with them since 1964. Love never dies, it just gets side tracked and then reblooms.
Joined with another lover in 2004, we make beautiful music together. The three of us share each other with each other. So far it is workings,although there are moments when we feel the need just to be alone.
2006-11-29 12:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I've been married 20 years. I knew my husband for 10 years before we were married. I'm now a very happy 42 year old woman with 2 children in college, and a husband I adore.
I would never say love has died. It sometimes wanes. I mean, my goodness he isn't perfect....like me *wink*.
2006-11-29 13:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lolli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 6 months and together for 3 years. We are both very much "in love" with each other.
2006-11-29 12:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been married very long, but we have lived together for 3 years. I think the most important thing, is never let the friendship die. Keep your partner as your best friend. Lean on them and always return the favor. Sex is nice, but friendship is the most important thing! Good luck
2006-11-29 12:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 25 years. Love isn't necessarily a feeling. It is a commitment. That "feeling" of love comes and goes, but the respect, friendship and commitment to each other lasts forever. It is not easy. It takes work, but it is soooooo worth it!! Hope this helped!
2006-11-29 12:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by brainsandcute2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God didn't say is was going to be easy, He just said it would be worth it. Anything worth having is worth working for. Sometimes we get caught up in the world and we forget about our spouses. If love has died in your relationship, it can be rekindled. The best way to do it is....your going to hate this....but trust me it'll work....Wait on them, cook their favorite dinner, clean the house, do something special for them, take a bubble bath with them, if you have kids find a baby sitter and have a "date night". Treat them like when you first met. I promise you if you will think of them first, they will notice and it will come back around to you. If you have kids it if very important you try everything in your power to make it work and be happy. God did not put us down here to be miserable. When you think of others you will feel better about yourself. When you are happy, they will be happier, your kids will be happier. You can get it back...you just got to try.
2006-11-29 12:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The intense sexual passion we had early in our marriage has been replaced by a more mature enduring love, and we still have a wonderful physical relationship. That intense passion (lust) does not sustain a relationship. There has to be something more. Those who don't have anything more divorce when the lust wears off.
2006-11-29 14:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've been married for 3 years going on four. i'm in love with my husband because he is what i wanted in a man. yes he has change since we got married but people change some for the better and some for the worst.
2006-11-29 12:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋