OK I AM IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I LIKE THIS GUY ALOOOOOOOT! WHEN I GO TO SLEEP I THINK ONLY ABOUT HIM AND WHEN I GO TO SKOOL AND SEE HIM I GET CHILLS. I LOOK FORWARD TO SEE HIM DURING THE DAY AND WHEN I DO HE SMILES AND CALLS MY NAME.... HE WRITES ME SOMETIMES AND TELLS ME I AM PRETTY.. HIS BEST FRIEND AMANDA TOLD ME THAT HE SAID HE REALLY LIKED ME BUT HE DOESNT WANT TO HURT ME IF WE DATED. I AM SOO CONFUSED WHAT DOES HE MEAN BY THIS????!?
HE IS A VIRGIN AND ME TOO AND HE IS 18 BUT I DONT GET WHAT COULD HE POSSIBLY HURT ME ABOUT? I IN HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT....??!? DO I ASK IF HE LIKES ME OR WAIT FOR HIM TO TELL ME? HE IS ALSO VERYY SHY.. PPL GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVICE PLEASE I AM GOING CRAZY THINKING ABOUT HIM?
2006-11-29 04:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by saved 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have to guess that he likes you, and he's shy about it.
I think you should just go talk to him and see what happens. Tell him how you feel, and hope for the best.
I don't know why he would be worried about hurting you... that's a strange thing to say.
Good luck
MJ
PS. For all the morons that post answers to these questions and then cut the person down for it. We were all there once...in highschool, overly dramatic, and scared of being accepted by our peers. What gives? I think it's rude of you to make comments like this. If you don't have a serious answer... why are you bothering? If you say it's for the points... how pathetic does that make you?
2006-11-29 04:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Snickers it sounds like Cupid has sent you an arrow. But the fact is I somehow doubt that your actually in love with this fella, you may be obsessed or emotional about him but to say that your in love is a bit of a stretch as you hardly even know him. If you want to know what his feelings are for you rather than going through a third party why don't you ask if you can get together after class and have a talk with him. Let him know that you think he's a special guy and you would like to get to know him better and wondered what he thought about it. He may surprise you and say that he finds you interesting but doesn't want to commit to a relationship. Or he may say that he has been watching you a lot lately and cannot get you off his mind also and would like to begin a relationship with you. Love is something that people grow into and must know each other very well, their good and bad points, before this word should be used. Best of luck and sorry for sounding so realistic but that's the fact.
2006-11-29 04:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You first have to get that virgin talk out of your head. Sex shouldn't even be in the equation right now! You have to think rationally about who you get involved with always. Take your time and find out what it's like to have a young man treat you like a young lady. I know it's tuff being in high school and being in love with someone from a distance. Because you are in love with him! And that's great! The thing that will get his attention most is if you continue being his friend and staying focus and motivated to do more than what your doing. He sees you ma......Just let him see you movin forward and he'll want to be with you!! Not because your both virgins but, because your the rite person for him .........if he's smart! Good Luck
2006-11-29 05:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just nervous. He really likes you but he is saying that he doesn't want to hurt you in any kind of way. I think that he wants to go out with you but is just nervous to ask you. Why don't you just walk up and tell him that you like him a lot and try to go out with him. Just take a deep breath and just ask him. If you both have feeling for each other, more than likely, you both could go out with each other.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-29 04:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is shy...ill have a hard time telling u that he likes u...maybe hes afraid that if u dont work out he will hurt u...also he could feel the same way u do n he is just scarred to tell u...try asking him if he likes u...hopefully he will get the courage to telll u if he dose..
2006-11-29 04:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by babyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you. and hey, I like your "I LIKE THIS GUY ALOOOOOOOT!" try to always use this line... It's persuasive.
2006-11-29 04:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Paw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALLC APS JUST GO OVER TO THE GUY AND ASK HIM OUT OK??????
2006-11-29 04:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Holy crap, high school drama is boring. Either ask him out or don't. And don't type in all caps, its annoying.
2006-11-29 04:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hes trying to use you
2006-11-29 04:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by lilkano c 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋