i found out that she had sex b4, its really killing me guys, i expected that shes a virgin and am gonna be the first and only man for her, i know am from a different culture and place, but doesnt it bother u guys too ?, i dont know should i leave her or forget this and move on, knowing that its hard for me to forget it, and i know that she really loves me so much.
another thing, i had some troubles and like a medical condition lately, and the only way we could contact now if am not able to be online is just texting, when i had this bad times, she was not texting much, so i felt like she doesnt care and shes not supporting me, it happened in other situations too, do u think its the distance or that i want her so much more than i should, like am so greedy or what ?
i really need ur help guys, am so depressed
2006-11-29 04:22:16 · 6 answers · asked by Tarek M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i found out that she had sex b4, she was really drunk and it didnt last long, but its still really killing me guys, and now she could get drunk again anytime, i really hate alcohol, i expected that shes a virgin and am gonna be the first and only man for her, i know am from a different culture and place, but doesnt it bother u guys too ?, i dont know should i leave her or forget this and move on, knowing that its hard for me to forget it, and i know that she really loves me so much.
another thing, i had some troubles and like a medical condition lately, and the only way we could contact now if am not able to be online is just texting, when i had this bad times, she was not texting much, so i felt like she doesnt care and shes not supporting me, it happened in other situations too, do u think its the distance or that i want her so much more than i should, like am so greedy or what ?
i really need ur help guys, am so depressed
2006-11-29 04:32:26 · update #1
I understand its difficult to be so far away from someone you love, but what you're going through right now will show whether you two are meant to be together or not. My boyfriend and I are having a long distance relationship and its hard not to be with him. He gets a hold of me as much as he can but sometimes I feel its not enough, but I have to understand that he is busy. Don't jump to conclusions on if she doesn't call you as much. And about the sex thing, I know its hard to forget, but that was in her past before she knew you, so don't even consider that now, she's with and that's all that should matter. Just hang on and be strong because this will only make you guys stronger and every time you see each other make you love each other even more.
2006-11-29 04:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by speedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her as much as you say you do a long distance relationship shouldn't matter, but you need to let her know your limits. Even though you guys live in two different places that doesn't mean she has the right to go around screwing around on you, seriously. Because there is no way you can find it out. Just make sure she is as committed to this relationship as you are. I know it can get hard sometimes in a relationship like this. You can see each other everyday and no real physical contact as much as you want. But you chose to love her and that is just one little thing you'll have to deal with. Just remember what I said...makes sure she is as committed as you are.
Goodluck
xoxo
beauty and brains
2006-11-29 04:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it does not have to hurt the relationship just because she had sex before. It depends on whether she is continuing this behavior. As far as long distance relationships they are very hard. I would not read to much into it. Is there anyway you can speak on the phone. It will help. Ask her how she is feeling. My daughter is in a long distance relationship and I can tell you it is difficult. So just ask if there is a problem. Good luck with your health.
2006-11-29 04:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just a girl. If she likes you she would spend time with you. If not let her go. I don’t believe in “long distant relationship”. I never find one that works.
2006-11-29 04:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Silly Jaro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first NEVER EVER think someone is a virgin unless they specifically tell u this
LDR-- are most difficult
Maybe you should find a g/f closer to home or move closer to her
2006-11-29 04:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK
I DON'T THINK IT WILL WORK OUT
LIVE TO FAR APART
2006-11-29 04:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋