She will usually only be with older men, 50's/60's, and says she doesn't feel attracted at all to anyone who isn't that age. She also comes from a very abusive background, has no family in her life, and has relationship issues. Plus, she's a virgin who never had sex because her first experience was almost forced and not concensual but the guy never went through with it.
What should the guy in this case do? If she's not with him she will be with other older men.
2006-11-29 04:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That or money issues.
2006-11-29 04:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 16:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because of all she went throught she was forced to grow up faster and finds younger men immature. She probably feels safe with an older man and probably feels like a guy her age could possibly hurt her in more ways than one. I'm in my 20's and I've been hit on by older men all the time. Nothing happens bc I'm not attracted to them but they do know how to carry a great intelligent conversation. Maybe you're looking to deep into things and the simple answer to it all is, she just likes older men. You can't help who your attracted to.
2006-11-29 04:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definitely has daddy issues that stem from the lack of a close relationship with her father which she craves. She feels by being with these older men that she will get the love she feels that she deserves. Its screwed up, but something she needs some counseling for.
2006-11-29 04:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...yeah I would say major daddy issues! She needs to at least go out with a few guys closer to her age... like under 35. The older men she wants should help her see that she is beautiful and needs a man, but not one as old as he, being that he could be her grandpa! He should feel bad for dating her! She should find someone younger... and the older men, even though i'm sure they would like to Should refuse to date her!
2006-11-29 04:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definte father type issues. She just hasn't found a man her age to treat her right..Most men don't know how to treat a woman with respect...they abuse and use
2006-11-29 04:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would say so based on your story. she could possibly be trying to fullfill a need she never had growing up.
michael jackson was never allowed to play with his friends when he was a kid so now that hes grown he likes to play with those kids who look like the ones he couldnt play with ages ago.
so yes.
2006-11-29 04:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by situatednut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone knows, but yeah....the description fits the bill. a lot of girls with weird issues like that stems from some event or something to do with their childhood.
2006-11-29 04:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...i guess if you like that kind of stuff then okay, but I honestly think you should stick with someone your own age. You do know he's gonna die before you (maybe?) Think about that...
2006-11-29 04:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be with older men.
2006-11-29 04:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋