My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN???
2006-11-29 04:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, interesting situation to say the least. The way I see it, you have several options.
1.) Change your cell phone number
2.) Pay a nice tough guy to throw him a royal beating
3.) Save these text messages and take them to the police and place a restraining order on him.
4.) Take some boxing/martial arts/self-defense classes and kick his @ss yourself when you feel comfortable in doing so.
Good luck,
Chris
2006-11-29 04:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chris L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do right now is to go to your parents or an adult that you can trust and notify them of what is going on. Do no text message him for any reason even if he keeps sending them to you. And most of all do not fall for anything he says. He is a very controlling person and the things he says to you are to make you feel cheap. You are a very smart girl I can tell by your question. Get help from an adult. You may need to go to the police station and press charges on him. Watch the news there are so many crazy men and women out there do not get caught up with one. Get away now while you can. Please seek help from an adult as soon as possible.
2006-11-29 04:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will try to contact u again and if u take him back he will abuse u again guys like him don't change tho they promise to and may even seem like they have for months sometimes even years the abuse always starts and happens again so my advice is change phone number if possible and avoid him as much as possible, him breaking up with u is the best thing that could have happen just cut all ties... if u have to file personal protection order or harassment charges..
2006-11-29 04:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I've been there. He will keep messing with you as long as you let him. It sounds like you are young, so first try your parents. They may help. If you were my child, I'd kick his ***. But that's not really the answer, but I would call the police at the very least.
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2016-10-07 23:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why.. because you let him.. now grow a back bone and do something.. but a restraining order on him and never look back.. there is someone out there that will treat you right.. it will hurt at first but in a few days, months, or years you will be happy you did!
2006-11-29 17:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully not...u dont need some1 like that in ur life sweetie..it aint right for a guy to hit u n abuse u verbally it totally wrong...n if he does contact u threatin u tell some1 that its happen n they can help u
2006-11-29 04:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by babyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are threats....I'd take it to the police and try to file a restraining order. What a bastard.
2006-11-29 04:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he probuably will you neeed to show him htat your not scared of him nd if you can't do that then you need to telll someone what he's doing cuz all that is not nessary cuz he shouldn't believe his friends over you it's stupid and he shouldn't be doing stuff like that anyways cuz it's childish
2006-11-29 04:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words.......Restraining Order!
2006-11-29 07:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋