Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

What is the difference when you have a friend who leaves comments for you in Myspace...versus another friend who you send a comment and email to, and all they do is email you back, they never leave you a comment, even though they may do it for other people.
What is the meaning and difference of what both friends do? does it have anything to do with how they feel about you? Whether they want people to know they are friends with you or act as if they are not friends with you when they just email you and not comment you back like you did to them? Or would they email you because of not wanting public to read the comments? Why is it that the same person will go and comment certain other people then? If the friend was embarassed to leave public comments, then why bother accepting us a as a friend right? It's probably much more easier to just decline the request right?

2006-11-29 04:19:47 · 2 answers · asked by Saira D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 04:18:48 · 20 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2 in Singles & Dating

So if you've ever seen any of my other questions I dance salsa and so does my girlfriend, I finally made up my mind to be a better dancer and just love my girlfriend. Recently we bought tickets for a big New Years Salsa Party and of course when we go out we dance with different people. I don't want her to wear this insanely sexy red dress to this salsa event. It's mainly because I won't be the only guy who she's wearing the dress for, I guess that's jealousy??? Am I just insecure??? Do I not trust my girlfriend??? I just feel bad about this whole thing, she should be able to wear whatever she wants...right???

2006-11-29 04:17:58 · 18 answers · asked by Alberto R 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do. It sounds crazy but my bf (of 7 years) who is aslo my two sons dad is in the middle of trying to get off of cocaine. He keeps doing it but is (I believe) trying to truely stop and be the guy I want him to be, but it is a hard thing to quit. I love our family so much and so does he and it hurts me because I think he really wants to be better and he cant Anyway the point is he is trying to do his best with everything (this week anyway). I have not cheated on him ever and wouldnt want to b/c he did to me in the past and i know how that feels but I like this guy who I have liked in the past when my bf and I had broken up before. I have talked to him a couple times and I know he likes me too, but I dont know if I should stop talking to him all together and see if my bf is really going to change and keep my faith in him or if I should talk to him anyway and assume he will not totally get better ever?

2006-11-29 04:17:42 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:17:23 · 16 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what can you do when someone whom you just broke up with, for a good reason, won't leave you alone....and it's not even my fualt that i broke up with him, and he's telling all his friend's lies about me....like i broke up with him for no reason...and it's all my all my fault! and he always threatens to kill himself right in front of everyone because he's so "depressed". i know he is....it's making me feel bad. he keeps giving me these death stares...he's starting to creep me out!

2006-11-29 04:17:13 · 1 answers · asked by gurly gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

she has no concept of how much money she spends, where she spends it and what bills she should be paying and when. she's now overdrafted her checking account twice in two months, the first time it happened i advanced her $125 (which she still can't afford to pay me back yet). we're going to get married, i don't want this to come between us. she doesn't do it on purpose, she's just ignorant on finance management. I really want to just demand to take over all of our finances and take control of her accounts, but she also needs to learn this for herself and grow up, she has a horrible pride-streak that prevents her from seeking help on her own. please help

2006-11-29 04:16:20 · 13 answers · asked by Spudnic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

- He's 9 years older than me (but doesn't look/act it)
- We work for the same company, but aren't in the office much together.
- Known him for about 6 months now & he asked me out for a drink last week.
- He told our workmates he was worried about asking me out case I said no.
- He's been asking them loads of questions about me.
- We've been texting each other quite a lot.
- Went out at the weekend, something to eat and drinks. Was weird at the end cos don't think either of us knew what to do. Ended up giving me a peck on the cheek.
- Spent all night chatting and laughing.
- He said we should do something again, but is he just trying to be nice because we work together? I hope not. I'd really like to keep seeing him!! What should I do now?

2006-11-29 04:15:55 · 26 answers · asked by jellytots78 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive read through some simular questions...and most people suggest to dress up sexy..not tarty. I dont think they mean lingere, so what kind of clothes shall i wear?

...girls maybe you can help me out but guys does your girlfriend wear anything that gets you a bit hot? other then underwear :P

thanks

2006-11-29 04:15:19 · 7 answers · asked by moomoo 2 in Singles & Dating

would it be thought of as cheating or helping out a friend?

This is a true question not one of my usual tounge in cheek ones..

2006-11-29 04:15:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I have been going out with this guy for 3 months and 10 days. Today some of my best friends have been coming up to me and saying that I should keep an eye on him, he has been flirting with other girls behind my back, i really like this guy and he says he really likes me! what should I do?

2006-11-29 04:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by beproud_playloud 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it physical, emotional or a bit of each?

2006-11-29 04:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, i am very sweet about it, because i KNOW how it feels to be on the receiving end.
One of my friends, was plain MEAN to a guy.He used to buy her stuff, she used to accept them and then throw them away or break them and he still loved her.
On the other hand, if i don't like a guy, i make sure that i don't lead them on and i try to be as nice about it as possible,STILL they hate me.Infact, one of the guys, i later found out, told everyone i was an arrogant b**ch with an attitude problem.
Why is this so?
IS my being nice somehow worse to their egos ??
Or am i unconciously hurting them in some way?

2006-11-29 04:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Singles & Dating

We broke up four months ago, and she told me he was texting her this past Sat. nite to see if she was out. What the hell is up with that? Why is it bugging me?

2006-11-29 04:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

dont you agree

2006-11-29 04:11:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I enjoy his attentions and it bothered me that he worked on the car while i watched.
Maybe something going on with him...or...
Could he be losing interest?

2006-11-29 04:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by EarthAngel 2 in Friends

When I talked to her in person she was all playful with me. She asked like 5 times why I didn't take homesoming pictures with her. She was really cool then. Was it because none of her other friends were around? She was real cool. I mean she acted like a real friend so I don't think she's not interested in being friends, but when I try to call/text her she seems uncomfortable. What's going on here?

2006-11-29 04:10:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been with my girl a while now and i seem to be the one who always asks if she wants to go out on saturday night or something. Is this right, i mean should she ask me out sometimes?

2006-11-29 04:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with this guy at school. i have tell him and showed him how much i love him but he does not want anything with me.
when i call him he always ends the calls with any excuse.
i decided to leave him alone but it hurts me because i really love him.
i have not see him in 2 weeks now and his b-day is next week
should i send him something?
or just a card?
or totally leave him alone?
he said he wants to be my friend.


i'm 19

2006-11-29 04:09:05 · 38 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Singles & Dating

My brothers and I are going to spill my mom's ashes soon (those were her wishes) and we need to do something with the urn once we're done. This is an elaborate marble and brass urn she bought for herself before she died and her ashes have been in it for five years now...

We're spilling her ashes in the Smoky Mountains (again, her wishes) and have no idea what to do with the urn when we're done. I've looked online and found no articles on the topic and am pulling a blank when I try to come up with a solution on my own.

Please help me out if you have any ideas... and please don't be mean or disrespectful to my mom... She was an amazing lady and was nice to just about everyone she met. I'd like to treat her ashes (and urn) with the same level of love that she gave so freely in her life.

Thanks in advance for your ideas and opinions :)

2006-11-29 04:08:38 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica C 2 in Family

I met a guy the other day and he's really cute, I was walking around looking for makeup and he was checking me out and I was ignoring him, then suddenly he started to talk to me and I answered back it was nice and friendly then we said our good byes and that was that, but before I left I had the urge to give him my phone number so I wrote it down on a piece of paper and went over to him and he came running and took the number and I left, and that was on sunday why hasn't he called? and how long does it take a guy to call a women back?

2006-11-29 04:08:03 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Singles & Dating

he said that he doesnt know why he did it he said he thinks he was maybe in love at first site but it would have never worked because he couldnt stop thinking about us and our family, but he also said maybe it could have been that we were having problems and he needed attention or something he saw in her he didnt think he was getting from me ( we just had a baby 8 months ago).

2006-11-29 04:08:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-29 04:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seperated from my wife for nearly a year and someone told me that if your seperated for 2 years the marriage gets disolved without a divorce does anyone know if this is true

2006-11-29 04:07:12 · 19 answers · asked by areyou_looking_atme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now who I knew had a girlfriend back home in Brazil.

He has now decided that he has had enough of this country and wants to move away which is fair enough, but he is also still commited to her and still feels strongly for.

I know how it sounds, like he just wants his cake and eat it, but I have fallen for him so much and I know he has for me but feels that he has to keep his promises to his girlfriend which he shouldn't have made in the first place.

I know that she is bad for him and only wants mone and an easy life, which is understandable as life there can be quite difficult, but he doesn 't realise this.

How can I make him see that he would be so much better off with me someone who would love him for him and make him stronger and treat him the way he should be treated because he really is a great guy, he's my soulmate.

Please don't say just move on, I just need him to see what he is leaving behind and help him make the right choice

2006-11-29 04:06:55 · 9 answers · asked by Isabel M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend doesnt want me to get him a Xmas present, but im the type of person who has to buy a Xmas present for EVERYONE...and apparently he's gotten me a pretty awesome gift....and on top of all that he has to be the hardest person to buy for....WHAT TO DO?

2006-11-29 04:06:16 · 5 answers · asked by CatLover101 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I had an agrument last night.

First we had sex and he came quick because he can't handle me too long when i'm on top, but i do it anyways just to please him although i don't get much out of it. I knew that he couldn't stay long. He just sat there for about 30 mins.

Then, he performs oral on me.

and when it was time for the last round, we had to stop suddenly (don't ask why,be it was urgent)

I was really upset because i really didn't enjoy myself and said that this was a waste of time. He was upset because I was upset and said he wasn't coming over again. I asked why and he just ignored me. I feelings were hurt so bad. We broke up last night because MOST of our small arguement lead into HUGE things.

I was wrong for getting upset. I admitt it was selfish. BUT he is wrong for his short temper that he needs to work on and his also doesn't have patience. I love him so much and now I'm trying to get him 2 C that we can change together. I AM SO WILLING 2 CHANGE!

2006-11-29 04:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by stress77mulah 3 in Singles & Dating

My father died of blood cancer and the pain of losing him just tears me apart inside. I can't find a way to deal with the fact that he is gone...vanished out of my life. He meant everything to me but when I saw him suffering I just couldn't handle it, so I tried not to be home much and now I feel ashamed and guilty for not being there for him more during this hard time.
Have you ever lost someone you loved?
How did you deal with that?
What can I do to overcome this unbearable pain?

Please only serious anwers.

2006-11-29 04:03:01 · 10 answers · asked by munich_dragonfly 1 in Family

I think alot of ladies say that they would love a man secure enough to let his wife's career take the lead but it seems that many of these relationships fall apart. From my expierence it is that the wife stops respecting the husband. When he protests feeling emasculated he is being sensitive and insecure but if he bears it in silence he is seen as passive. Do you guys think that this is why some men try to not let thier wives careers supass thier own? It seems as if the husband is now in "competition" with his professional wife for her respect. Is this right? Is this happening? is it normal?

2006-11-29 04:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce