Well I have been going out with this guy for 3 months and 10 days. Today some of my best friends have been coming up to me and saying that I should keep an eye on him, he has been flirting with other girls behind my back, i really like this guy and he says he really likes me! what should I do?
2006-11-29 04:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by beproud_playloud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
2006-11-29 04:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have been hearing things about him flirting with other girls behind your back. It may be nothing as some people are just flirts without them knowing it. But it may be something else. He maybe testing you and you need to find out what he is doing. Tell him if he is flirting and wanting to continue that if he is flirting with other girls then he doesn't get you. If he really likes you back then he will take your feelings into consideration and knock it off. If he is just trying to be a player, you don't need him. I know feelings are strong but you will find some one who isn't going to be playing head games with you. Tell him straight up and don't back down because he flashes his wonderful smile or bats his gorgeous eyes. You are to important of a person to be played.
2006-11-29 12:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a psycho...take in what your friends are saying and confront him...just slip it in 'My friends mentioned you flirt alot when I'm not around..is that true?'
see what he says...if he admits it or you know for sure he does it just say clearly that you dont like it and that your sure he would not like you to flirt with other men.
2006-11-29 12:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends, because they were there before you were with this guy. Instead of keeping an eye on him, confront him.
2006-11-29 12:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Reyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as long as he treats you right. Unless you're planning to get married, you both have and maintain the right to flirt.
2006-11-29 12:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? And yes listen to your friends. Do not let anyone take advantage of you in any way. Be good to yourself and do what is good for you.
2006-11-29 12:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have had the talk- in other words -vowing to be each others one and only, then he has the right to flirt and you too!
2006-11-29 12:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by littlemiss-sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they told you just keep your eye on him and keep him happy not by sex but other things and then see if he change most likely he will.
2006-11-29 12:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by fenkell_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur friends, u need all the eyes u can get
2006-11-29 12:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by crisis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him straight to his face then you can take it from there, you can tell whether he's lying or not but make sure you don't immediatly believe your best friends they could just be jealous
2006-11-29 12:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by glambabe_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋