Been with my girl a while now and i seem to be the one who always asks if she wants to go out on saturday night or something. Is this right, i mean should she ask me out sometimes?
2006-11-29 04:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to go somewhere, you should ask. If she wants to go somewhere she should ask. Like, if you wanted to go to a football game you would ask. If she wanted to go to the ballet, she would ask. I personally would never ask a guy. I'm old school. You guys need to be gentlemans and stop expecting girls to ask you. Chivalry isn't dead. Maybe your gf just has high standards. You should respect them. And another thing... OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER!!!!! Hope you figure everything out.
2006-11-29 04:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by beth d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe there has been times she has hinted to go places but sometimes guys don't get it. if in dout u need to talk to her about it. Make a plan or just don't ask one weekend and when she ask why your not going no where that weekend then just say well i thought we would stay home seance you didn't want to go anywhere,, and if she says something back just ask her well honey where would you like to go? Some you guys need to learn our thing of making it think you are the one commin up with the ideal lol us woman do that all the time to make you guys think your doing good. hehe good luck Vickie
2006-11-29 12:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a little weird.. it's traditionally the guy so usually in the early stages of the relationship it is his responsibility to plan the dates. However, if you've been together for a while then she should planning too. Speak up. Tell her that you feel like your monopolizing the date planning and want to do what she wants to do. That way you're not criticizing her; you're being a really nice, thoughtful guy. Not only do you not have to plan the date but you get bonus points for being thoughtful!
2006-11-29 12:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well people might have different oppions but i think that the girl should do it unless the guy is wanting to suprise the girl .. I am in a relationship and i make all of the plans and the dates usually !!
2006-11-29 12:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut-Butter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is "old school" then she may feel that it is your job to ask every time I would talk to her about it there could be a good reason why she doesn't ask you. Communication is the key to any strong relationship. Good luck!
2006-11-29 12:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by crickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century it's both genders' opportunity to ask each other out if they dig them.
2006-11-29 12:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my thing is ill tell him i want to do something ask him wat he is gonna do then he usually respomds with its wateva u want to do...i mean sometimes wen i miss him a lot ill tell him lets go do something but like we both have this understanding that fri,sat,and sun me and him are gonna spend time together
2006-11-29 12:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a great relationship then both of you should make plans
2006-11-29 12:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with the gal asking
2006-11-29 12:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can if she wants. Case in point IF SHE WANTS()
2006-11-29 12:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋