- He's 9 years older than me (but doesn't look/act it)
- We work for the same company, but aren't in the office much together.
- Known him for about 6 months now & he asked me out for a drink last week.
- He told our workmates he was worried about asking me out case I said no.
- He's been asking them loads of questions about me.
- We've been texting each other quite a lot.
- Went out at the weekend, something to eat and drinks. Was weird at the end cos don't think either of us knew what to do. Ended up giving me a peck on the cheek.
- Spent all night chatting and laughing.
- He said we should do something again, but is he just trying to be nice because we work together? I hope not. I'd really like to keep seeing him!! What should I do now?
2006-11-29 04:15:55 · 26 answers · asked by jellytots78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He definitely likes you, all the right sins are there, keep at it he sounds nice.
2006-11-29 04:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you alot!
Be warned though, dating someone from work can be awkward if you both decide to split up.
I think, you have to ask him out on the next date!
I bet he will jump at the chance!
I also think that it may have been down top shyness that you only ended up with a simple peck on the cheek! Next time if you want to, go for the lips, when he moves in for the kiss!
I wish you all the best!
Take care,
Love n light xx x
2006-11-29 12:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All sounds very exciting!! Why don't you ask him out? You had a good time and everything you have said sounds very positive!! Just do it, what have you got to lose?? At least you'll know for sure. And when you go on your next date, when you meet up at the beginning, give him a big snog and say you wanted to get it out the way because it made you nervous!! Just g for it my lovely, if you are meant to be together you won't be able to ruin it, I truly believe that x
2006-11-29 12:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to stop worrying about whether he likes you or not, and just assume that he does. Worrying makes us miserable, and men don't find miserable women attractive. He initialy found you attractive enough to ask you on a date, so he did like you, but if you were too worried over the date, he may have sensed this, and it may have made him uncomfortable. Just relax and have fun in his company, men like women who are fun to be with, which you probably were, untill you got all screwed up about whether he liked you or not. Think you are irresistable, and you will be irresistable.
2006-11-29 12:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have so much in common where my past is concerned - and he is my husband now! So, the answer is - yes, he likes you! Good luck babes, let us know what happens. By the way, he is not nice to you because you both work in the same office, but because he genuinly likes you. Him being older means he is mature enough to deal with (potential) office gossip, so wouldn't be fake about his feelings towards you. x
2006-11-29 12:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definitely likes you but is unsure of what your answer would be if he were to ask you out for a 'date' because of the age gap. If you like him that much, why dont you tell him or ask him out for your next date, that way he SHOULD be able to read the signs and realise that you like him too and would like things to continue/go further.
2006-11-29 12:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by RichyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesn't matter in a relationship....if you are two consenting ADULTS. Ask him to go out sometime, if there is chemistry you will know after a couple of dates...if not go on your merry way! Good luck!
2006-11-29 12:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by crickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure hes in to you. I prefer dating older men, my chap is ten years older than me. I find older men have usually got it out of their system makes a relationship much easier in my oppinion. good luck
2006-11-29 12:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by skin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL YOU ARE CRAZYYY...Of course he likes you.Name just one man who will ask so much about you and doing it just because he wants ti be a friend with you.Obviously he has an interest so go on, meet him again.
But be careful.Don't say to everyone.
2006-11-29 12:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hwo do you know if he likes you? check his internet cache and see if he's been going on 'low cost viagra' sites
:-)
let him know that you are still interested and that you'd like to go out again.maybe he unsure of the messages that he got from you. maybe he thought that the evening ended on a downbeat and you dont want to get involved anymore.
just let him know
2006-11-29 12:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Vinni and beer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋