I mean, i am very sweet about it, because i KNOW how it feels to be on the receiving end.
One of my friends, was plain MEAN to a guy.He used to buy her stuff, she used to accept them and then throw them away or break them and he still loved her.
On the other hand, if i don't like a guy, i make sure that i don't lead them on and i try to be as nice about it as possible,STILL they hate me.Infact, one of the guys, i later found out, told everyone i was an arrogant b**ch with an attitude problem.
Why is this so?
IS my being nice somehow worse to their egos ??
Or am i unconciously hurting them in some way?
2006-11-29 04:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe the way you reject them is abit direct even though you might think you're being nice about it. I think the best way to reject someone is just say ur already involved with someone else. hope this was helpful.
2006-11-29 04:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this has happened more than once,you will need to look at what you are being told. You have been given feedback,try not to take it personally, but rather as information. One of your guys called you an arrogant bth, can you see where he could in any way come to think that. remember you are trying to find answers. not defend your self. I honestly believe that if you search all the information you get you might see what you are doing to other people, and once you know you can change it. best of luck
2006-11-29 12:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice is all you can do, keep on rejecting nicely until your guy comes along!!!!
2006-11-29 12:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I think ur doing the right thing so dnt give a f***...
2006-11-29 12:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Spacetod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you reject them!
2006-11-29 12:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋