GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP
2006-11-29 04:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uoh! this guy is in big trouble because for sure, it will come a time that you wont feel attraction to him anymore cause he's weak (ouch!). well to settle your problem, he's exactly attracted to you but he doesnt know what to do. She's shy, and probably you're the first woman she ever dated, or your really hot. You should lead him to do things cause he wont help you when you like him. if your flirting or cuddling, and If you REALLY want to impress him who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:
"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"
Adding a flirtatious element to a serious question is fun and inviting way of building SEXUAL TENSION that will instantly separate you from every other woman he's ever met. It lets him know that you're sassy, smart, and selective - an IRRESISTABLE combination.
Oh, by the way, you forgot to post your picture and your email add. By nextime, try to email me. chances are low to email back, but you wont win a game unless you play it!
2006-11-29 04:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Paw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We definitely get nervous around women we like, especially when we're younger. And the prettier she is, the more intimidating she is. Exception: playahs don't have confidence problems -- they approach you assuming that you want them (most guys are nervous because they're not sure about that). If a guy's not nervous around you, watch out.
2006-11-29 12:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to Confident men. Since your guy friend you dated was a bit intimidated with you, he lacked a bit of confidence so you didn't find him all that attractive. Now that you have gotten your life together and you no longer have him, you find him very attractive. You might have broken his heart and he no longer cares to pursue you. In my younger days I might go out with you again but then again I might do it to get even with you. In my older age,...I don't go backwards. You had your chance with him and blew it. Move on to another guy.
2006-11-29 12:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and ask this guy for a crucial talk. explain your predicament. be emotional. if possible ask one of his friend to be there. you should asure him of at least some few hours of funs and affections per week. I believe he will reason with you.
2006-11-29 12:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by oadegbolaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answerd this once b4 move on hes not interested
2006-11-29 12:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how she acts if he gets nervous
2006-11-29 12:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by eggbcn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady please seek out some help. maybe a women psychologist!
2006-11-29 12:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by lou k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋