my mail man is realy hot! and hubby works all the time he would never know. If you could cheat without signifigant other ever finding out would you.
2006-11-29 04:26:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only if he is "First Class mail" and you don't end up with a "special delivery" in 9 months, but be careful he does not go "postal" on you, unless you collect stamps.
remember neither rain, sleet or snow will stop the mailman from cumming.
2006-11-29 04:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Manipulators can always find a reason that their behavior is someone else's fault and not their own. They will never take accountability or responsiblity for their own actions because that would mean that they actually have to change and they don't want to. They like what they are doing but they don't want to be punished for doing the wrong thing. And that is why they lie and manipulate (if they can). If they can convince you that you are the one at fault, then they can do as they please with no repercussions. Well sorry but time is up. If he is a big enough boy to fight for his country, then he is a big enough boy to face a judge in divorce court. He committed adultery mulitiple times and he has had more chances than he deserves! What are you waiting for? For him to bring home an incurable sexually transmitted disease? Do you want hiv/aids, hepatitis c, herpes, or genital warts? Dump him. You wait until he goes to work and then you pack up everything and move out (if possible, get your parents to come and get you). Don't forget your id, your records (work, tax, banking, health, education, etc.), pictures, clothing, personal affects, and if there are any pets, take them too. Don't forget bank cards, credit cards, checkbooks. Get a good lawyer and file for divorce on the grounds of adultery and mental cruelty (adultery should cover that). And then let his commander know what he has done. Adultery is a BIG no-no in the military and they will not be happy with him. And make sure that you sever any joint bank accounts, mortgages, credit cards, oh and utilities so he can't run up debt in your name. Stop feeling guilty and take action. Starting now. Good luck and get that lawyer!
2016-05-23 02:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is all about trust. Consider how you would feel if he had an affair with some hot chick at his place of business. Even though he might not ever find out, could you honestly say your marriage is built upon trust? Guess you have to be able to live with yourself afterwards. If you can accept the consequences of that and are not bothered by the moral issues here...do what you want.
2006-11-29 04:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat even if my hubby never found out. I couldn't live with the guilt and shame. I made a vow to my husband before God and I will honor that vow and commitment until the day I die. Nothing is worth me loosing the man I love and my family. Not worth it.
2006-11-29 04:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
Even if your hubby doesn't find out, the fling will affect you emotionally and pyschologically in subtle ways that will harm your relationship with your husband. It is a question if you love your husband and value your marriage.
If you really feel a need to be with another man, tell your husband. He might surprise you!
2006-11-29 04:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jack C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I would NOT cheat on my significant other whether he would find out our not; and you should not cheat on your husband with the mail man. Even if he never find out, you will always know and how would you be able to live with yourself!
2006-11-29 04:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by eryldaperl 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Been there and done that and loved every minute of it. It was great and I think it was the absolute funnest. However, you have to be the type of person who wont go into some sort of spiral into remorse and depression and beat yourself up for screwing up. You have to look at it another way. It was fun. It was good. Now, its back to business. Think of it as a fun ride at an amusement park, nothing more. God, after all, its just sex for pete's sake. Its not the end of the world. So, just stay emotionally detached and enjoy it for what it is. Just sex and it is fun. When it is over, its over. Then it is back to the same old same old.
2006-11-29 04:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
haha well if you have to ask people if it is okay tp cheat on your spouse it shows little respect for yourself let alone your husband. What would you do if he were to find this question online...... cheating is never okay. you may get away with it for alittle while but sooner or later it will catch up with you.... remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2006-11-29 04:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing going into your slot should be the mail
If you feel like this often....get a divorce and give your hubby a break...you obviously don't want to be married
2006-11-29 04:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by crackerjack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... NEVER! Im TERRIBLE at hiding things. When Im hiding something, I lash out at the person Im hiding it from because in my eyes, its easier to be mad at that person and Not have to talk to them, then have to be near them and hide something like that. I would never ever cheat. Cheating is such a hateful thing to do to someone. I hope this helps!
2006-11-29 04:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a question... if he could never find out and it wouldn't affect your relationship? It depends. Will it eat at your conscience? Because if not and he'll never find out, what he doesn't know won't hurt him. Just think about this - if he were doing that to you and you didn't know... how do you feel about being in that position? Or do you not care, you cheeky devil? ^_~
2006-11-29 04:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋