I was with this guy for over a year and I still love him. It ended because I cheated on him but it really wasn't cheating because I never kissed or did anything with the guy except talk on the phone. I still have really big feelings for him and he told me that he has feelings for me too so what should I do? He's a senior this year with a very promising carreer. So what should I do about this?
2006-11-29 05:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say this, but i would move on. Im sure he still has feelings for you, but you broke up with him because you cheated. He may not have any trust for you. And if he doesnt trust you, i wouldnt risk getting back together with him, cause it could be a set up for you to get hurt in return. Hes a senior now, so that means he will soon be going away to college and he will have many opportunities for different things.....I would remain close friends with him...and if you guys were meant to be then it will happen over time.
2006-11-29 05:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you it's easy to see what you had when it's gone. If you still love him it wouldn't be real fair for yourself or the other person if you moved on. Wait and see what happens. Fight like hell....if you really love him.
Your still in high school...you have a lot to learn about love still. You'll learn with experience. You seem like a pretty nice girl, I'm sure all will go well with you.
2006-11-29 13:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all it took for him to leave you...he was looking for an excuse. You are young, there are going to be alot of guys out there. Don't tie yourself to just one guy right now. You have your whole life ahead of you. There are more guys than you realize. He's probably thinking the same thing. He needs to see what else is out there before he settles down. If it is ment to be, it will be. My husband is still kicking himself in the butt for just dating one girl all thru high school (and he's old now). Don't get into a big hurry to get married, you have your whole life in front of you.
2006-11-29 13:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know how I feel and then give him space. Now may not be a good time to "get back together" but it's a great time to maintain a healthy "nonsexual" friendship. This will strengthen the bond that you two already have and when he's had time to heal, you 2 may get back together.
2006-11-29 13:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by qtpisunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make my feelings clear to him and tell him that you would love to try again. after that its really out of your hands. you cant make him do something he doesnt choose to do. i would try to be a casual friend to him and not pressure him. while you are waiting to what he is going to do u should carry on with your life and make yourself happy. you will be more attractive to him if you appear happy and not desperate. besides that u might just find that your life is just fine without him. you are young and if he doesnt come around then so be it, you have many opportunities ahead of you. five years from now you could be with the man of your dreams and thankful you moved on from that guy. things arent always what they seem at the moment and happiness awaits you with or without him!
2006-11-29 13:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you really loved him you would not have been talking to that other guy. Your still in High School trust me there will be other guy.
2006-11-29 13:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by brownhornet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it at least...i mean at least try...let him learn to trust you again...i mean if you both still have feelings for each other theres no reason not to give it another shot...good luck.
2006-11-29 13:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jen05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a porn star
2006-11-29 13:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋