I know they say birds of a feather flock together, but this bird wants to fly the coop. The majority of my closet friends are negative, unhappy and promiscuous. I will admit that I was that way but I have been changing this past year and I just don't have anything in common with them anymore and I don't know what to do. Should I just break away completely or just deal with it and hope that they change. NOTE: They are all more than 5 years older than me. I am just scared that if I continue to hang around them I will become them. What to do? What to do? What to do?
2006-11-29 05:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fly away birdie. I found from high school, I only had 3 good friends. I speak with them all still now, but we aren't any where near close now. One lives minutes away, the other 2 hours away, and the most important one, she lives in a whole nother country. My point is, if they are important to you, keep them in your life. But if you could give or take, then give. You don't want to be exposed to crap, then don't be exposed, it's all up to you. You can make new friends, better ones, if you look in the right places. It's never too late to make some good friends. Just choose carefully, and then hold on tight. But you have to make an effort. Try church, school, library...etc. Don't try bars, clubs, parties...etc. I think you get my point. If you want some wholesome, fun, special friends, you won't find them at certain places.
Fly away!
2006-11-29 07:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by the_proms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how u feel in away...and although my friends and I are different in various ways it's the positivity that brings us together. If u don't feel that with ur friends then u should walk away peacefully, it doesn't have to be totally but let them notice u are headed in a different direction, they will act accordingly or go about their business in any case it is important to do u....I've had friends who choose to fly the coop to say and all in all as hurtful as it has been it does help others to reflect and if they are growing and changing then that could be something to get them started in a positve direction. Just dont let it get dramatic or negative, because it weighs u down. Be real be honest and open with them and urself. Look for new friends, there is no such thing as too many friends but keep those that accentuate ur positve the closest. God Bless and Good Luck
2006-11-29 07:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you really need to make some new friends. Start looking around at school and in your town for different things to get involved in to meet new people. If you continue to hang out with people that don't improve your life, it will becoming emotionally draining. I was friends with a girl for a long time, even the godmother to her daughter. I was in the delivery room when this chid was born but I could no longer be friends with the mom. She was just so negative and draining and toxic. I will say that I am not proud of the way I handled it but at the same time, putting an end to our relationship was the best thing I could have done for myself. Good luck!
2006-11-29 05:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by svg7373 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make new friends
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2006-11-29 05:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋