Last week I was down at the senior center,and this lady who is about my age that I've known for over 15 years asked me if me,and my husband would like to do some partner swapping? I thought it was the craziest thing in the world,but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Should I tell her I don't wan to be friends anymore or should I try this partner swapping stuff?
2006-11-29 05:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by Gertie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
EEWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!
SOME THINGS ARE BETTER KEPT PRIVATE LIKE IN UR SENIOR CENTER!!!
2006-11-29 05:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't recommend partner swapping, but I have never done it and am not interested in it. I can't see it possible helping your marriage at all. But, that said, to each his own. If you are interested in swapping and so is your partner, you should talk more about it with her and also talk with your partner about the pros and cons. But if you already know that you are not interested, just tell her that you don't think it would be for you. It's nothing to lose a friend over though.
2006-11-29 13:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like a sucker for even bothering to answer this, but I'm gonna assume for a second you are serious.
Talk to your husband. Ask him what he thinks. Communicate. Do you have jealousy issues? Would it bother you to share him with another woman? Could he do the same? Do you both find the other couple attractive? Would it be fun to have some no strings sex? Communicate.
If you communicate, and go into this with an open mind and some rules, it can work. Violate anything I have said and it can be disaster.
2006-11-29 13:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm proud of you that you would even consider doing it. All couples involved have to be on agreement with everything before entering into this lifestyle. If you choose not to do it for any reason...that is ok. You don't have to quit being friends though. Just tell your friend that you aren't interested and leave it at that. If she is your true friend, she will accept your decision.
2006-11-29 13:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like that answer!!! Tell her about his awful STD...never thought of that hahahahah!...Swapping is not something you want haunting your relationship.
2006-11-29 13:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Stacye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If is a turn on for you, and your husband then I would try it, but if you are not ready for it then don't. You can still be friends with your friend.
2006-11-29 13:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HaHa thats gross! Just tell her hes your man and only your man! or tell her he has an STD! make a joke out of it so she doesn't get hurt. :)
2006-11-29 13:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just thank her for the offer and tell her no, you are not interested...
2006-11-29 13:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROSS, I'm telling grandma you are using her picture again
2006-11-29 13:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by icequeen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋