overall she is skinny but her butt is mushy and flabby and she has no muscles in it or her legs cuz she refuses to do any kind of work out. I have suggested working out would be good for her but she just continues to say "I have never been the workout type." She is 36 now and it will only catch up to her. I run and workout everyday but can never do it with her. also, because she does not have to alot the time and commitment to it, she can't relate to me having to. she lives in an area full of hot chicks, so she can surely see what is out there...
2006-11-29 05:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, she has asked me if I like her butt and is mad I don't tell her she has a hot *** (her words). I wasn't being shallow, just trying to figure out how best to answer without crushing her. sugar coat or hard truth? bottom line, I don't think it is irreversible if she wants to do something about it. Judging by the responses so far from women on this board it is obvious how hot a topic this is...and that's why I am asking. my apologies for sounding shallow. I want her to look better for her too....not just me.
2006-11-29 05:44:34 · update #1
You don't. Her body is her business, to do with as she choses. It seem's obvious she's not interested in working out with you or otherwise, so let it go and move on. It's not up to you.
2006-11-29 05:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
telling a girl she has a big butt is one of those things that a smart guy would avoid doing at all costs.
Be glad she isn't asking you "Is my butt big?"... and then you have to make a choice between saying the truth (which could offend her in a major way), and having to lie, which would not be a good thing for your character.
This is not an area that is safe for you to tread in, especially if you're a shallow, what's in it for me type. If you can't get over the big butt issue, you need to go find a girl with a small butt and hope that she doesn't have some other problems that could be worse might be more easily hidden than a big butt.
2006-11-29 13:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow. you are shallow. I trust there is more to her than her butt, and if that's bothering you so much, then go look at something else. And there's no way of telling her without showing her how pathetic you are and thus making her leave you. Sorry but the truth hurts.
2006-11-29 13:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You take care of you. Her butt isn't your responsibility. And try to read a book or something...gain some perspective, some depth.
2006-11-29 13:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by mrtoddanson 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she sounds lazy..but soon she will realize that she looks bad she probably already does..i've gained 15 lbs and i don't work out i look like ****...now i realize you have to work out to say healthy and enjoy the goods you like....
just be honest with her...she may not like you for a while but sh ewill come around
2006-11-29 13:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is misworded. It should read:
"How do I get over how much someone else's butt bothers me? Why am I so shallow?"
Seriously.
2006-11-29 13:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your not married to her....or even dating her why is it so important to you. She must be happy with herself as she is. And, as you say...one day it may catch up to her. You've done the suggesting to her..........not just leave it alone.
2006-11-29 13:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a picture is worth a thousand words.
if you can, get a picture of her overall physic and don't show it to her but let her find it.
2006-11-29 13:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest and tell her she looks awful. She will appreciate your honesty
2006-11-29 13:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by keith s 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
bounce a quarter off of it
2006-11-29 13:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋