Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

2006-11-29 05:37:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and me have a great realtionship and everything and he has always been supportive of my swimming career. a week ago in the mail i found a letter from this place in cali! they want me to swim there with them in some competition! i was so excited and when i told Rissy he freaked out and said that he cant go because of his musical try outs and i dont want to go alone! my friends rudi and cindy have a town house out in cali about 20 miles from the comp is. we have been so suportive of eachother and now we are at a huge rift. he says if i go then that means i dont care about his music. (he wants to go somewhere in life with it) i care but i have to follow my dreams right? what should i do?

2006-11-29 05:37:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 05:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

while pleasuring yourself? Or do you go about your business and get it done without any thought?

just curious :)

2006-11-29 05:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see... I'm a lesbin... I love girls... I don't know why... but I just do.. and see.. i have a girlfriend she's a stud and I love her.. but see.. it's this other dike and she keeps messing with me and my friends say she be checking me out.. I use to like this girl until I got back with my girlfriend.. but when she flirts with me.. it turns me on.. but how can that be when I love this other person I am with.. I mean... I know that i love this person for my own personal reasons.. and for that I keep pushing that girl that keeps hitting on me away.. but something I don't know what it is but something is making me want to do something to that girl.. other than that all I think about is my lover.. I love one person.. and that one person only.. but I just can't seem to understand what is this feeling I am feeling with this other person...

2006-11-29 05:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by latasha 2 in Singles & Dating

i haven t been with him over 4 yrs and now he claims he has changed for good. should i trust him again?

2006-11-29 05:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by chachi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 05:36:16 · 6 answers · asked by buckles1935 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf of 3.5 months, whom I love and who loves me, recently told me he found out his ex has started dating again. He said it surprises him that he feels jealous. My bf doesn't have much experience with girls...he's 23 and I'm his 2nd serious girlfriend. He used to be a seminary student, but decided he didn't want to be a priest.
Since then, he's dated his ex (he dated her for 3 years) and me. He says he knows for sure that he loves me. He's even told me he could see us married someday. It's crazy because we haven't been dating that long, but we spend everyday together (we're law students and in the same classes), so I feel like I've known him forever.
Now, however, he's worried that this jealousy might mean he still has feelings for his ex. He said he needs to go home (to MN, we're in VA now) for Xmas and see her to know for sure. I'm worried he might want her back, but he told me last night that was pretty unlikely (i.e. he dumped her for a reason).

Should I believe him?

2006-11-29 05:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend will be turning 19 in January and yes I have already started planning his special day! My only question is .. is it a good idea to invite some of his close friends (maybe 3 or 4) to a nice sit sown dinner with us or should it just be the two of us?

2006-11-29 05:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Singles & Dating

im trying to find a charm for mums birthday, she has asked for this specificly and i cant find one anywhere, help!!!! thank you x

2006-11-29 05:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by julie m 1 in Family

I was at a party on Saturday night. I got a little drunk, and I was talking with a guy friend that I have known for about a year. On Monday, we exchanged some funny emails about things that happened at the party. One of his emails made reference to me saying some things that he surprised him. I knew that I was being bold and flirty, so I emailed him back and asked him if I propositioned him and apologized if I said anything inappropriate. He emailed me back and said the following :
"I don't recall any propositions...but it is flattering to know that the risk was there."
How do I interpret that, and how do I respond ? I might be interested in having fun with the guy. I know he is married, so please don't read me the riot act, just interpret for me.

2006-11-29 05:33:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get a gift for my sister-n-law and her husband ( just to stick it to them ). They deserve something really really rotten ( too long a story to get into now ) It has to be something that looks nice from the outside ( no bags of poop )..but that really actually sucks. I was thinking of an unactivated gift card. But there has to be other fabulous ideas. help.

2006-11-29 05:33:31 · 10 answers · asked by cheese food product 2 in Family

we got maried 4 years ago, every thing was perfect till i got sick becuse of his behaviour with me . and for 1 month that i was really sick. he told me to go back to my country to change my mood but when i came back i realized that he is cheating with brithish lady.
so could you please kindly tell me why when i ask him to come and divoce me . he says no . when i tell him ok come back home and try to prove me every thing is finished , he says no. he is telling me that he is confiused . and he dose not know what he what from his life. and try to put all the blame on me that ileft him for a week . so what should i do with him?

2006-11-29 05:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by solmaz_z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please no stupid things like sex stuff!!!!!!(men)

2006-11-29 05:31:04 · 2 answers · asked by tequilla_colby07 1 in Singles & Dating

First off, let me say I was homeschooled until graduation and left for college an extremely naive, kinda dorky kid who tucked in t-shirts with a belt.

Long story short, it's now 3 years later and I'm almost nothing like I used to be.

Now here's the problem, there are things my mother does, things I didn't notice when I was younger because I accepted them as common behavior but now they raise some concern.

1) I broke the news to my mom that I'm planning to move into an apartment with some of my friends. Her reaction, she stomped out of the room, and screamed through the house "you've broken my heart!" for the rest of the day. I finally gave in when she started crying. (I'm thinking i should have stayed firm)

2) The pet nicknames, which I can't stand. She calls me things like "butt munches"..."lovey"...."sugarboy"...and has been known to do it in front of my friends.

3) She was yelling at me about something and I was sharp with her. She then locked herself in her room and cried.

2006-11-29 05:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by some random dude 1 in Family

2006-11-29 05:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Dad was 60 when he passed. He was a loving, gentle Dad and husband. He was the glue and the life of our family. Funny, larger than life man. He told me before he passed that he wanted Mom to marry again. But he would like to be "cold" first. (off branded humor) My Mom was always the head strong one while my Dad was the loving, family always first one. Mom distanced herself from us (me and my 3 brothers) after the funeral and started going to the bar alot. Then she came over one day and asked if it was ok if she stared dating. I told her I was uncomfortable with it but I knew she was lonely. She married my Dad when she was 17 and she is 52 now. Well it wasn't a week later when my message machine about blew up. It was my brothers calling to tell me she was moving a guy in. I know my Dad would cringe. Even as adults we were not allowed stay overnight at our parents house w/a BF or GF unless we were married,my moms rule. She knows this is killing us, but doesn't care. Any advice?

2006-11-29 05:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-29 05:30:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never made out before, and it's going to happen soon I think, but he soesn't know how inexperienced I am, and I'm afraid he's going to push for more, how would I get him to stop that, but not get offended or put off or anything? At what point should I tell him to cut it out?

2006-11-29 05:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Singles & Dating

This morning I mentioned to my boyfriend, I might want to become a teacher. He quickly responded "You could never be a teacher, you couldn't handle it." As far as I am concered I am completely capable of doing so. I got mad/upset because no matter what I feel like persuing he should be supportive and tell me to go for my goals. He said that I was "overreacting, and blowing it out of proportion.", when I continued to be mad about this. I don't feel wrong for being hurt about this. But am I?

2006-11-29 05:29:42 · 19 answers · asked by Fallon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so here's the short...while hanging out last week i met someone and we seemed to hit it off. we spent the entire evening talking, laughing and being silly. we went to his place and although it had been agreed that no sex would occur, we did have a pretty hot and heavy make-out session. he told me that he had just dumped his girlfriend of 3 years; and i thought "great" because me and my boyfriend had just broken up, too. but when we were at his place, she called him about 10 times back-to-back. i just thought maybe she was a little crazy.
so...fast forward to this past weekend. i called him once and there was no answer, so i left a voice-mail. he hasn't called me back. i'm already guessing he's not too interested but am i jumping the gun? should i give him a little more time before i delete him from my life forever? also, does it sound like he and his girlfriend never broke up? i'd really like to see him, again, but i don't want to chase him; especially if he has a gf.

2006-11-29 05:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by iPROMISE[♥] 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I may have let my "one" go, I was in a FWB relationship and I fell in love with her, unfortunately she didn't return this love.

2006-11-29 05:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by dfsd d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

IM MAD!

2006-11-29 05:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 05:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Damn, I never thought i'd ever resort to this thing. but. there a girl I know we've known eacthother for like 2 weeks. she's very playful. very friendly. I really like her. I think she likes me too, but I'm not sure, I can kind of guess just by the way she looks at me, also how we hug everytime we see eachother (real hug, not the half assed one arm hugs). I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, but I'm not exactly sure how, it's not something I can just ask. I dunno. I'm just trying to figure out how to find out if we have something, she's gorgeous, and I really like her. Please help :)?

2006-11-29 05:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by stattiiic 2 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law really gets on my nerves, and creates bad feeling throughout my household, he makes my wife (His Daughter) feel like crap, by criticising everything she does, who in-turns makes my life a misery when he has upset her!! How do I deal with the idiot without breaking the law or offending other members of the family.....

2006-11-29 05:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i was on the phone withmy bf like 15 min ago and asked him how his day went. then he tells me that he hanging out with this girl Jessica but he has never mentioned anything to me since he knows that it would make me mad! but all of a sudden i was like what the heck? and he sees this girl i dont know how many times a week behind my back with out me knowing. when he said that i just wanted to take my cell and throw it against athe wall or something because it hurt so bad for him to lie to me! also, when i started dating him i saw someting so good in him yet now i feel that what i saw in him is almost gone or to that point!got off the phone with my best friend of 5 years and she told me that she thinks that he is cheating on me!when she said said that i asked her why he had to go to the same university as me? and she was asking me if i am being honest or mad or what and i said that i wish that he did not attend the same university as me! can someone help me ? thanks

2006-11-29 05:27:09 · 1 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex wife left his kids for a few years til she came back. She and my mom in law still keep in touch. She asked for the kids, but she should have come over to our house instead of keeping in touch with my mom in law. I think it should be between my husband and his ex wife, his family shouldn't interfere us, but my mom in law said she loves her no matter what even though my husband told her to back off. What should I do?

2006-11-29 05:27:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am struggling to find anything good in my life anymore due to not having anyone to look forward to it with. Have just gotten out of FWB relationship and I miss her so much I don't think I can look forward to anything the same as I used to without her

2006-11-29 05:26:28 · 12 answers · asked by dfsd d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love chatting online and people tell me I am really smart and funny. I am overweight by about three stone but I am told I am pretty with a nice personality.Because of my weight I tend to look frumpy and so I dont get a lot of male attention. One said I dress like his mother.
I only open up when I get to know people for some time, but by then guys lose interest.Please help I am really lonely and really want a boyfriend to share my life with

2006-11-29 05:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating