2006-11-29 05:37:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do...
however i once had a friend who was against porn because of her morals, but her husband wanted to look at porn.....she came up with what i thought was a very good comprimise.....she bought a polaroid camera and a bunch of lingerie and let him take pictures of her....then if he wanted to look at "porn", he had sexy pics of her to look at
2006-11-29 05:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by SNAP! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to look at women. Women like to look at women, maybe not naked, but it's natural. I'm married, and my wife doesn't care that I watch porn on occasion... she sometimes watches it with me. Porn is not really the problem from what I've found in past relationships. If you are insecure about some woman, that is in a porno video or magazine, then you really need to work on your trust/jealousy issues. You should realize that if you are married, then you have to trust that person until given a reason not to. Your husband most likely will never meet any of these women. If it bothers you, then just ask him to not do it around you. On the other hand, watching porn can make "some" men, that aren't mature enough to distinguish between fantasy and real-life, crave other women in real life. So, basically you and you hubby need to talk, and come to a mutual understanding that is suitable for both of you. It may spice up your marriage if you can watch it him on occasion. Porn is good in my situation, because it curves my curiosity about new women by viewing new women in porn. And my wife is okay with that. Seeing the same person everyday, forever, can get a little boring for some. So it's better to look at new people in a safe, harmless way. Talk about it.
2016-05-23 02:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a question of letting him.
I would rather he didn't and there is no evidence to believe that he is doing otherwise. When he was younger he looked at Playboy, etc. and that didn't really bother me. If he insisted upon looking at stuff I found troublesome, I'd probably start looking at stuff he found icky and then we'd have to make a compromise and both us give it all up.
I also think that there is a difference between Playboy and some of the horrible porn that is truly degrading out there. So, if it doesn't bother you, then I would suggest that you draw some lines about what is acceptable and what is not based upon your own values and likes/dislikes. I say this because the problem that I've seen with some of my friends' marriages in which there is lots of internet porn usage is that it starts out mild and ends up anything but. The husband looks at it all the time and then starts to think some of this degrading stuff is normal and wants the wife to do it. One of my friend's marriages ended because of his insistence on the matter (having sex with their dog).
2006-11-29 06:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do...It is normal human instinct. I rather him watch a porn or look at a magazine and jack off instead of going find a 10 minute fling and cheat. He can cheat all he wants with a porn and a magazine. It is ok baby. I promise. It's normal for them. They also get horney more often than most women. Let him clam his cravings.
2006-11-29 05:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it. And i tried the suggestion of making our own porn, but apparently i am just not good enough, cause he still looks at internet porn. So whatever. It's better than him going to strip clubs and cheating on me with real girls. I just wish i was all he needed, but i know that will never happen.
2006-11-30 11:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he doesn't look at porn. We get this magazine package deal every month and it has like 5 different mags in it - one of which is FHM - he flips through it in under 5 minutes. I look at it longer then he does!
2006-11-29 06:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man has these SAME two porn mags in a drawer in our bedroom for like the last 4 years...the SAME two! LOL! I think he thinks guys are "supposed" to have stuff like that! Either that, or he is too CHEAP to buy more.....
Funny......I love that nutty guy..........
2006-11-29 06:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't "let" him. He does what he wants. Recently, I caught him lying about watching it. I guess he felt embarrassed about it. I didn't physically catch him, I saw it on his history (on the computer). I know he still watches it once in awhile, even if he denies it. It bothers me a little, but mainly because he tries to hide it. I understand though. Honestly, if your man is faithful and still loves having sex with you, then you're okay.
2006-11-29 06:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. It keeps the sex life spicy and it's great foreplay. For those women who think that their "good husbands" don't look at it...get your head outta the clouds. They do!! What so bad about it? Would you rather him look at porn, fantasize about those women, or would you rather find some skimpy panties (that don't belong to you) in his pocket? I'd rather have mine look than touch!!
We are still in love and it's stronger than it was when we were first married.
2006-11-29 06:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Boo Boo Head 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure I do. Where's the harm? I'm the one he's with. I'm not threatened by glossy pictures or video of women he'll never meet.
2006-11-29 06:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Shepherd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋