we got maried 4 years ago, every thing was perfect till i got sick becuse of his behaviour with me . and for 1 month that i was really sick. he told me to go back to my country to change my mood but when i came back i realized that he is cheating with brithish lady.
so could you please kindly tell me why when i ask him to come and divoce me . he says no . when i tell him ok come back home and try to prove me every thing is finished , he says no. he is telling me that he is confiused . and he dose not know what he what from his life. and try to put all the blame on me that ileft him for a week . so what should i do with him?
2006-11-29 05:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by solmaz_z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when men cheat they try and lay blame for the reason on the one who is hurt, the victim. they are just trying to get u to depressed and down and believing it was your falt so u won't lay blame where it really belongs. i would divorce him, and get some alimony out of it. he is not done with this woman yet, he doesn't want to divorce u because he might have to give u too much financially, or split the assetts fairly.
2006-11-29 13:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to divorce this douche. He's obviously a heartless piece of sh*t to cheat on you like that. He doesn't deserve you and I know it'll be difficult, but try your best to just move on. While you're heartbroken over this, he's probably fooling around with that blonde girl. Giving him any kind of second chance at this point is just useless. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You deserve so much better. Leave the douche and find the one for you. Hopefully you'll get it right with the next one. Best of luck. Oh, and payback is always nice :) Your next question should be about how to get your revenge.
2016-05-23 02:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy he is an asshole
find someone else in your neighborhood.
tell him an american woman would never put up with his crap and tell him not to forget anything when he leaves ,because the door stays shut to him Grrrr men like him piss me off lol
Good luck hon
Suzie
2006-11-29 05:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
Kick him to the curb.
He's cheated on you, he blames you for the fact that he can't keep his zipper closed for a week (what rot), he's treated you like crap, and he's keeping you dangling. What in the world do you get out of this relationship?
2006-11-29 05:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on now it is up to you should you keep trying or move on i say move on for get him he is acting like a child i say start your life over and don't involve him just get the divorce.
2006-11-29 05:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont blame your self guys like to try to get the girl to thinking well if it wasnt for you this or wasnt for you that it wouldnt of happened but thats not true if he was going to cheat and turn out to be a pig he did it on his own and would of rather you wasnt sick,
2006-11-29 05:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce before he does and claims you were the one cheating! Don't go back to him, once a cheat always a cheat!
2006-11-29 05:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Amber C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be true to yourself love yourself enough to know that when a man is finish with you for you to just hold on to your dignity and morals for your self and divorce him and wait on Your good th ing to come because you should not want anyone to come and cause that much chaos in your life
2006-11-29 06:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by evan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop blaming yourself.Kick him to the curb.You deserve more then this man has to offer you.Let the british lady have him because he is not worth fighting for.
2006-11-29 05:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that he isn't finished with her. You don't have to get his approval for a divorce. If you are in USA, you can get a divorce on your own.
2006-11-29 05:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋