so here's the short...while hanging out last week i met someone and we seemed to hit it off. we spent the entire evening talking, laughing and being silly. we went to his place and although it had been agreed that no sex would occur, we did have a pretty hot and heavy make-out session. he told me that he had just dumped his girlfriend of 3 years; and i thought "great" because me and my boyfriend had just broken up, too. but when we were at his place, she called him about 10 times back-to-back. i just thought maybe she was a little crazy.
so...fast forward to this past weekend. i called him once and there was no answer, so i left a voice-mail. he hasn't called me back. i'm already guessing he's not too interested but am i jumping the gun? should i give him a little more time before i delete him from my life forever? also, does it sound like he and his girlfriend never broke up? i'd really like to see him, again, but i don't want to chase him; especially if he has a gf.
2006-11-29 05:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by iPROMISE[♥] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he ignored her phone calls because he was kissing me...duh. j/k but he never picked up the phone and talked to her.
do i just let it go?
2006-11-29 05:32:23 · update #1
Sounds like a loser move on
2006-11-29 05:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like at one point the two of them did break up or at least took a break from one another. I would say even though he is cool and all that you might want to move on. He seems like he doesn't have his emotions under control and the exgf sure has some attachment issues with him. Just wait for him to call you if he doesn't then he is done. He has issues that go way beyond you and that you are not going to be able to help him with. So I would give it another week but I would call him or text him during this time. Just a test for him
2006-11-29 13:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Laila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the phone number, and find someone who has just not got out of a relationship. Actully, since you also just broke up, take sometime and get yourself together before dating again. Dating on the rebound is the worse thing you could ever do. Give it about six months, then start over new because all you are doing now is trying to find a quick fix on how to replace your last boyfriend, and the odds of that working out are slim, so it will only lead to future problems.
2006-11-29 13:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say lose the number. You don't want this type of baggage in your life. You are just starting out all new, look for people that lift you up in life, not bring you down. With an ex-girlfriend of 3 years, not a good start. Move on for yourself, you deserve a guy that is totally into you, and only you.
2006-11-29 13:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were there and his ex kept calling i would have left. sure there are those times when the ex wont get the picture but if he just recently broke up with her, there are still some feelings there. you know when you were kissing him and he didnt asnwer? he may have been doing the exact same thing when you called, he might have been with her. dont chase him anymore. he is not ready for a stable relationship with you.
2006-11-29 14:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is going to get back with his girlfriend. you may have been a little fun for him on his rebound, but these first meetings of make out sessions just dont mean anything to men. move on and find someone else, and I would wait at least a week before making out with a new guy.
2006-11-29 13:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by jr90292 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question. if u dont want to chase him then dont, and if you dont want to waste your time on a guy with a girlfriend then why do it? he is unavailable whether he is with her still or not. technically he may not be with her, but emotionally he is still busy dealing with his issues. why even consider getting involved with someone not able to truely focus on the relationship you are trying to build with them. you should trust your gut feelings they are being more honest with you than he was. I really think he is still involved with his girlfriend and who needs that?
2006-11-29 13:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont contact him again just give him space, i guarantee he will be in touch no matter how long it takes, guys are like boomerangs. he may just be confused with all this stuff with his gf, not sure if they broke up or not but either way give it time and dont chase him, guys hate that
2006-11-29 13:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was a one night thing. I'd let him go. You can do better.
2006-11-29 13:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by hello 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probaby got back with phone girl, sorry bout that.
2006-11-29 13:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋