I've never made out before, and it's going to happen soon I think, but he soesn't know how inexperienced I am, and I'm afraid he's going to push for more, how would I get him to stop that, but not get offended or put off or anything? At what point should I tell him to cut it out?
2006-11-29 05:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Julie I think in your situation you should be honest with this person from the start. You want to make sure you have a friendship with this person first and if you can not tell him that you have never even kissed you do not have a friendship yet. If he thinks that you have done more than you have and he goes to do something you dont want to do he may take it as a sign that you don't like him. Just be open for you will want someone with the same values that you have
2006-11-29 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you start making out and thats cool just do that for a bit and hell probably try to feel you up and if he does and you arent ok with that move his hand He is probably going to try doing something with his hands first and just move them away if you dont want him to mess with you. And if after the second time he does it again tell him no and mean it after that stop and tell him to take you home and if he dont stop a swift kick to the balls.
2006-11-29 05:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him verbally... without you telling him that you dont feel comfortable with the pace of the relationship how else is he supposed to know? You can be direct with him without being rude, just explain that you like him but you want to take things a little slower because you dont want this relationship to just be physical.
2006-11-29 05:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by ballin4eva87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually best if you say something bcuz the way your making it seem is that you dont want to tell him you haven't really done anything with a guy so he wont break up with you and if that is the case your going to end up unhappy either way. But regardless of your reasons, if your not up front with him your probably going to end up doing something you'll regret!
2006-11-29 05:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
julie he will have all the respect for you in jesus name if you just let him know just how it is you are not experienced you actually havent evenbeen there yet. he will be honored to be the first but first honey make sure this person is worthy of tearing down your temple.and when you are about to take off the draws you tell him to stop explain your situation and tell him hes about to get your valuable prize and if he is not ready to be all yours heis not ready for whats about to go down speaking of that ge that too........t
2006-11-29 05:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say things like let's just relax and just make out, ok?? If he has half of a brain, then he would know.
2006-11-29 05:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple, no fone calls from u, no sms and if he calls too often, ignore some of the calls, in short ignore him. he will figure it out himself. with this behavior he will defenately approach u in person to understand wat is going on, thats when u tell him politely how you feel.
2006-11-29 05:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up and walk away...
(no words needed!)
2006-11-29 05:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say NO.
2006-11-29 05:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋