3 years ago there was this girl in my class called ophelia. she was one of the popular girls, i wasn't (i was pretty geeky back then).
then she moved away 1 year and a half ago and now she's come back.
she's being really nice to me (i guess i'm not such a dork anymore).
she keeps giving me all these complements, saying about how she secretly admired me 3 years back.
i'm friends with her now, and she wants me to join the "popular group".
the only problem is that they're all bitches and they look down on me.
i'd love to go with her, but what do i say? how do i act?
this could be huge! and i don't know what to do!
and what about my old friends? would they take this badly even if we're not all that close?
2006-11-29 04:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by chocolate.smartie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should let her know that your comfortable with where your at you shouldnt change your ways just for her. If she really likes you for you then she'll be able to accept who your friends are. If not then something is up and shes not really in it for you.
2006-11-29 04:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick With your old friends. Who wants to be with a load of bitches. You can still retain your friendship with this other girl if you want but don't be pressurised into doing things you don't want to. Be nice but be assertive. You'll be glad.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-29 12:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her what made you comfortable and with not. If she really likes you, no matter whatever group you are with then she will like you and accept you as you.
2006-11-29 12:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful it could be a sham or a set-up. Its happened before! sorry to burst your bubble...
2006-11-29 12:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Steph :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋