well one of the love of my life's ex boyfriends has stepped into the picture and well i see him trying to take over me by sending her love letters saying this and that well i dont know what to do...do i fight back...give her space....or do i do the same back....or what should i do
2006-11-29 04:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by big W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its only natural for a person to try and get what they can't get. And well you could try talking to her. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you noticed that he was givin her lots of attention that was not there a while ago. You could ask her if she feels the same as you. Tell her how you feel and be honest don't shy out or say something you don't mean.
Dont accuse her of cheating or giving her attention to someone esle or she might think that you want to be put in a pedastal and praised, and you might end up losing her. Plus she obviously seems quite an important person to you.
Do not turn this into a competition between the both of you. Treat her special, buy her chocolates more often but not veeeeery often. She might thik that you are competing wit him.
PLUS...
DONT make her choose. After all at the end of the day, who is she with? OBVIOUSLY NOT HIM!
I think that when you talk to her and tell her the truth she will understand where you're coming from and she
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2006-11-29 04:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i gotta tell ya that i would not hurt to turn up the charm, but dont be too worried. there is a reason they are not together. if for some reason they get back together remember that this is the love of your life and you want this person to be happy even if it's not with you.
2006-11-29 12:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by mel2430 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not respond to any of his behavior. If she does, and in a positive way (example, responding to his letters, spending time with him, ext...) then you know you may not be the love of her life and move on.....if her actions, attitude and so on does not change with you, don't worry about it....and be happy you have someone that everyone wants and only you have!
2006-11-29 12:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she broke up with that guy for a reason. don't let him push you out of the picture. propose if it comes to that. but don't let him take her. what he's doing in inapporpriate. and what she's doing in kinda like cheating on you. ask her to tell that guy that she had a man already.
2006-11-29 12:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by Starry Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first you need to see if shes still interested in him and talk to her about it... let her know how you r felling about the whole thing...
2006-11-29 12:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by movebytch78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember an x was an x for a reason
2006-11-29 12:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by sonoftazont 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theold adage reads:
If you love something, set it free
If it loves you it will return
If it doesn't, then the love was never there
2006-11-29 12:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a game. do you want to play?
2006-11-29 12:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Silly Jaro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if u lover her, i think u should fight for her.
2006-11-29 12:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋