How do they act if they just wanna sleep with you as opposed to genuinely fancuying you and wanting you for a girlfriend? I know they all want to sleep with you in the end but whats the difference in the beginning? Bear in mind that this guy is 36 (not sure if it makes a difference!)
2006-11-29 04:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Older guys may be pretty hard to figure out. They are older and more experienced. But alot tend to be past the whole immature stage where they want to sleep with every woman they can. Some arn't. It's all about how he talks to you and his body language.
Trust your instinct.
2006-11-29 04:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The unfortionate thing is that we don't really know going in. It's all about frame of mind. I've been with a few girls over the last year that we started going out with good intentions but then things got weird so we split up.
At 36 a guy is probably ready to settle in with someone, I know I am now. It takes time to get to know someone. The best thing you can do is just free fall into it and if you get hurt you get hurt. Until you find the right guy.
If your concerned about sleeping with him, then don't for a while, if he gives up because you won't sleep with him then that's what he's there for. When you do sleep togehter!! Use protection!!!
Just have fun, the right one will fall right into your lap or visa versa!!
2006-11-29 04:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 36 myself, hopefully I can help you out. First of all it dependson how you guys met. If you met him at a club and you were both intoxicated, be careful. Most older guys check out how you carry yourself before they determine how they are going to come at you. You are right about all off them wanting to sleep with you, and your first test is whether or not you sleep with him on the first night . Just see if the guy is interested in your personality and not your body (watch his eyes). See how respectful and polite he is and ask him to tell you a little about himself. By 36, he should be an established man as far as his knowing what he wants in a woman, if he is still clubbin every weekend, all he is looking for is sex. Hope this helps.
2006-11-29 05:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a "older" guy, I can tell you that men do not like to play games! If you are offering to sleep with him right away, then he would be dumb to not jump on it!
If you are taking your time and he is genuinely interested in you, then he will not be pressuring you for sex, it will come in time!
Choose wisely grasshopper!
2006-11-29 04:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive had some experience with guys, and i know that alot of them only want sex and will tell you everything you want to hear to make you believe that they only want you. I think you have to really know the person and know that you can trust that they are really wanting you and not sex. Dont give in to temptation until you really know this guy cares about you.
2006-11-29 04:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by roxie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they only wanna sleep with u he will only come to yr house and wont take u out on a real date.he wont introduce u to his freinds and he wont buy u anything.There is alot of users and losers out there in this world so if u think he only wants to sleep with u ,u are probably rt.go with yr feelings.
2006-11-29 04:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is every man's responsibility to sleep with as many women as possible before he settles down with the true love of his life. And by sleeping, we mean the full monty of sex. sex. sex.
At 36 your man is just getting started.
2006-11-29 04:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a guy, relationships shouldn't be taken forgranted.Thy'll act all perfect till sex is over than you see his true self.I'm41 so i been through that.But you will feel it if he is genuine.So take your time if he cares talk to him straighten him out.Vic
2006-11-29 04:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. its simple. when a guy doesnt want to go off showing you to everyone. ya know, brag about his catch. you may be just a bootycall. and you dont want to be that girl. but if he introduces you to friends, family even, then it could be relationship thing. but thats just my experience with guys. i hope i helped.
2006-11-29 04:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by hunnyz_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will focus on sex alone, and not care about how you feel about it....as long as they get what they want and after they do get what they want they will walk away until they want what they want again.....no consideration for you whatsoever.
2006-11-29 04:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋