Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

She doesn't have any friends and no one in our family cares to hang out with her because they find her to boring because she doesn't drink, smoke marajuana or hang out at clubs or talk about sex and a whole bunch of other garbage. She's pretty much a loner. What do you think of a person like my cousin?

2006-11-28 14:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive decided i want to break up w/ my boyfriend. its harder than you think though. we are VERY different in numerous ways including religion. well he tried to press his religion on me, so i suggested he might want to break up w/ me(i would hoping he would) well apparently, hes really in love with me(and im more or less, not, i kinda like someone else) so i made him cry(apparently) so i guess thats not such a good idea to even suggest it. can you give me some good tips on how to gently say to him, i cant be with him anymore. i dont really want to do it in person because i will end up not saying anything, cuz im too nervous. how do i say it nicely, w/o making a big deal??? i just want to be friends, but i have a feeling no matter what i do, he will always be heartbroken and not want to talk to me.

2006-11-28 14:03:37 · 6 answers · asked by Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

He is new to the "truckin" thing, and should be getting his own rig right around christmas. I asked him what he wanted as far as a gift goes...he said "stuff for the truck" I don't know what that means. I asked him, but he's not sure either (don't make any sense to me) I don't know what to get him... Please give me a few Ideas if you might know of something. Thank you!

2006-11-28 14:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What if you dont know the guy at all, and you barely see him around school? Does the guy at least think you're attractive? or hideous? And I mean staring at the face, not body (well I think/hope.)
By the way, what usually happens is I notice someone looking at me, then I look at that person. He does not avert his gaze.
We made eye contact twice before, and we never talked.

2006-11-28 14:02:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But I will be willing to bring that person to my job for employment or help them find something that better they like.

2006-11-28 14:02:10 · 18 answers · asked by KORYE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so we tell each other we love each other.. and have for a while now... he tells me i'm it.. hes gonna marry me... and all this has really got me to wanting him to pop the question bad... he is 8 hrs away attending pharmacy school right now... and im attending school here in our home town.... he will be home in september and we plan on living together... i've let him know i want him to ask .. but he seems like its no big deal... how long should i wait before i really push the issue... its really starting to bother me, what is the problem... i'm one of these that believe that if u find that person... and you know that this is it... then why not ask them and start planning the rest of your lives together?? this is stressing me and hurting our relationship.. what should i do.. and how long is too long for me to wait!?

2006-11-28 14:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by hopelessly_in_love 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 14:01:48 · 4 answers · asked by bigbuf1roams 1 in Friends

So here is the deal. i think i might have feelings for one of my ex. i liked him last year and invited him to my party. He asked me out and i said yes. we kissed and we went out for like 3-4 days. i broke up with him cuz i think i wasnt ready or something. But i got a whole lot of more experience and i think i like him now! I want to go out with him becuase he knew how to treat a girl right and all. He was those boys who did not care wat ppl said about who he goes out with and he expresses himself.

So do you ppl think i should ask him out?

2006-11-28 14:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Singles & Dating

When you know other's are talking about you behind your back, when you have always been there for them and had there back...how do you possiably live life knowing they are talking about you? How do you live life without it bothering you?

2006-11-28 14:00:34 · 24 answers · asked by hofers65 2 in Friends

how do i call and tell my boyfriend that i still luv him so that we can get back together i need better answer than what they are giving me. i don't know how to tell him so how can i really do luv him everytime i think about him i want to cry. i always think about the ggood times we had together and what all we did and stuff i just don't know how to tell him how i feel give me your email address if you want to talk more about this problem please i really do need your help

2006-11-28 14:00:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boss want to date me, i have a boy friend but he cant give me the life that my boss could financialy, is that selfish?

2006-11-28 13:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

okay here goes..... well my i am a teen and as everyone might know Teens want to DATE!!! well i have a boyfriend.. but guess what MY parents dont know...(the title *hint*hint*) now we tooka pic together and made it say LOVE FOREVER... and guess wat my cousin took it away and he is over 21 and he is giving me till friday to tell my parents bout my boyfriend if not he is gonna show the pic to myy parents..... but i know that if i tell them ... IT AINT GONNA be pretty.... so wat do i do?????

2006-11-28 13:59:05 · 13 answers · asked by Desert Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Short story - my mom & dad just recently split 6 months ago after being married for 40 years. She is a very depressed, negative woman. Nothing you do or say is right and if you try to confront her you are wrong. She drinks all day and is on several meds, including pain killers. She smokes more cigarettes than and outlet can hold. I have tried to get her to pine rest to get some mental stabillity but she refuses. She constantly calls me complaining about my father and how horrible her life it. It's a pity party for her every day. I cannot take it anymore. I have a husband and a 1 year old that needs me. If you can't do something for her it's "oh I'll do it myself". In a sad, depressed tone. She had a steel rod put in her foot and has a bad knee. So she can't do much, so she says. I've tried everything from getting her somewhere to calling her doctor for help. I can't handle this and I need some direction on what I should do with her. It's always easy to say but she still is my mother...

2006-11-28 13:58:55 · 4 answers · asked by KP 1 in Family

2006-11-28 13:58:49 · 11 answers · asked by funnynotlost 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 13:58:43 · 11 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

I work at a company in which a lot of men who are married brag about cheating on their wives and talk about it like it is nothing and common place. This makes me kind of upset and I wonder do all men get off on cheating on their wife and talking about it openly. It really irritates me because I am engaged and my fiance is cheating. It feels like I am in the "Twilight Zone" and can't believe that these married men get off on cheating on their wife. These married men are not teenagers. They are in their late 20's and 30's and they just get a rise out of telling stories of their infidelity. Seems these so called men are heartless and have no care for their wives.

2006-11-28 13:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by James J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my friend has this boyfriend...they been together for 3 months now...One time I went to a party she was having for her parents anniversary...When I came into the party it was like all eyes on me...I said hello to everyone...during the whole party ma friend bf kept staring at me, kept getting me drinks as if he wanted to get me drunk. I just thought hey maybe he just being friendly... but one time I was in front of my house and they came...i had just took a ID picture and it was horrible...so I told her not to show him...when i was standing in front of him so she wouldnt show him, he grabbed my butt. I didnt say nuttin and left. He is always hitting on me...I want to tell my friend but I know she won't believe me...she's head over heels(in love)...I know that she wouldn't believe me...plus im afraid he might twist things around and make it seem like I'm the one that started it. when I have no interest for lieing cheating dogs like him...ewww Plus i would never to that to anyone...

2006-11-28 13:57:27 · 22 answers · asked by SEXYCHULA 1 in Friends

There is this guy that i am crazy about, but we both pretent to both hate each other and only make-fun of each other. Inside we both like each other A LOT! And he is not that kind of person that everybody likes, everybody says that they fill bad for me because he is going to ask me to the dance! That made me really happy but if I told anybody elce beside my two best friends, everybody may think I am wierd.My 2 bffs think I should go with him,(i do too) but I'm like this girl at school that almost everybody likes. I'm not snoby girl like u always see, but someone caring that everyone likes. And everything I do goes around the whole school. I don't want to b called "THE WIRED GIRL who likes Carter! What do I do? I know you are going to write go with him if that is what your hearts desires, I want more than that please! This is my love life! It is in your hands!


With trust in you, klgeorge68

2006-11-28 13:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by klgeorge68@verizon.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Then years later she starts dating this man, oh may I mention she has a little girl that is 3 and trying to get custody of her 6 year old/

2006-11-28 13:56:46 · 21 answers · asked by girlyin26 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 13:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by farewell_moose 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say.....If you, as a woman(age: 30), are in a relationship w/ a man, you love him endlessly & consider as your soul (assuming from your perspective, he's perfect in every aspect of a man that can be; from his personality(charming, caring, devoted, faithful, affectionate, romatic, attentive, intellectual, & compatible w/ u), characteristic(energetic, hard-working ethic, helpful to others in needs), social status(professional: M.D/PhD), physical attribute(6'6'',well-built & very attractive)). Except for one thing, he's 35 yrs old, but HE LOOKS EXTREMELY YOUNG; HE LOOKS LIKE AROUND 18-20 YRS OF AGE....So if you were this 30 year-old woman, do you consider to have a long-term relationship w/ this young-looking man, eventually marriage?
Or are you afraid of how people are going to stigmatize/judge you (for seducing him w/ $ in order to satify your needs eventhough it's not true) due to the fact that he looks too young w/ you as a couple eventhough he's five years older than you?

2006-11-28 13:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 13:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by Pepper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So....There's this guy I really like in my social studies class (we're desk partners-thank GOD!!). Anyways, he's really sweet and nice, and I am planning to ask him to our Sadie's, or turnabout dance. I kind of want to let him know how I feel, but idk how, cuz i sometimes get shy around him. I'm just going to try to go out of my way to talk to him more, and maybe that'll help. Do you have any suggestions on how to GRADUALLY let him know that I am crushing on him?? Thanks a lot!

2006-11-28 13:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She left me becuz of religon and duty to her family.She and i were lez partners.her parents want her to get married and they had no clue about us.They have grown old and want her to be taken care of.So she decided to get married to first guy who came and asked.Now she wants me to be around as friends.She says i am her soulmate and doesn't want to lose me..i still luv her.i feel confused i don't know what to do?Or how to treat her.Do i forget about her or continue living in between and be in pain??pls help

2006-11-28 13:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Rayden D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 13:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Pepper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 13:53:25 · 19 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Like you see an attractive person and all of the sudden you notice their teeth are all misshapen, yellowed or decayed, would that bother you?

2006-11-28 13:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing is I am the sister of the owner of this business he works for, I work there too as the bookkeeper.
He always come to work half an hour early either to set up, eat, or talk to me(small talk.)
He's been asking a lot of questions like do I have a bf, what's my middle name, where did I go to school, what kind of ppl I hang out with,etc...
He told me I looked nice last night...he never really said that before.
I dunno...he recently broke up with his gf...that was up until I asked ,"how's your gf?"
He likes to call me by my middle name....
Too friendly?
I don't think it is appropriate for me to get involved with him since I am related to the business!

2006-11-28 13:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating

I know people who post about suicide on here are generally just made fun of and/or told to just go die... or are told they are doing it for the attention... I apparantly dont want any of those...

... so yeah ... I want to kill myself.. soon.. I'm a 15 year old girl.. I have nothing to live for... people who've told me they cared just ended up being jerks.. most of my friends have deserted me ... my family... I just don't know

I dont think lifes worth it.. seriously .. all the crap we have to put up its not worth it..

i dunno why I'm posting this... I guess I want someone to talk me out of it...

2006-11-28 13:50:03 · 32 answers · asked by egf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 13:49:25 · 19 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating