Hi Ladies, I have a question for you???

Question

Let's say.....If you, as a woman(age: 30), are in a relationship w/ a man, you love him endlessly & consider as your soul (assuming from your perspective, he's perfect in every aspect of a man that can be; from his personality(charming, caring, devoted, faithful, affectionate, romatic, attentive, intellectual, & compatible w/ u), characteristic(energetic, hard-working ethic, helpful to others in needs), social status(professional: M.D/PhD), physical attribute(6'6'',well-built & very attractive)). Except for one thing, he's 35 yrs old, but HE LOOKS EXTREMELY YOUNG; HE LOOKS LIKE AROUND 18-20 YRS OF AGE....So if you were this 30 year-old woman, do you consider to have a long-term relationship w/ this young-looking man, eventually marriage?
Or are you afraid of how people are going to stigmatize/judge you (for seducing him w/ $ in order to satify your needs eventhough it's not true) due to the fact that he looks too young w/ you as a couple eventhough he's five years older than you?

Answer 1

As a 30 year old woman, she should be relieved to find such a handsome, successful, intelligent man around her age. Any person who ends a relationship because of what others might think or say is shallow and inadequate as a partner. If she's talking about you, you're a cutie and she should be glad you're not bald and impotent.

Answer 2

If I loved him that much, nothing would matter.
Actually, I prefer younger looking as opposed to old and craggly any day, so it would be a good thing.
But if you two truly love each other, don't worry how other people look at you. It's nobody else's business.

Answer 3

age doesn't matter and even looks don't matter.. It is not ur age or ur looks will determine whether you love each other or not.. looks will soon fade away.. What important is the love you have for each other.. I don't care whatever people may think or say.. it will not affect our relationship. They may say or think whatever they want to.. Their opinions have nothing to do with our relationship.. our love matters most than their judgment...

Answer 4

I don't think five years is that big of an age gap nowadays. Look at Anna Nicole Smith, okay bad example, but I do think five years is a decent age gap.