She doesn't have any friends and no one in our family cares to hang out with her because they find her to boring because she doesn't drink, smoke marajuana or hang out at clubs or talk about sex and a whole bunch of other garbage. She's pretty much a loner. What do you think of a person like my cousin?
2006-11-28 14:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Cant really judge her because of this. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Maybe she hasnt fallen into our world today that is obsessed with Sex,Drugs, and Alcahol...God bless her.. for that. Maybe if people would get the chance to hang out with her in the things she likes to do as well as you like shopping,movie,bowling,bingo, whatever your town has shed be a good person to do those sorts of things. Sometime people grow older and they grow out of the obsessiveness of Drugs and Alcahol though of course the world is going to talk about sex..i think thats when more people will want to be around her. Think shed be a good friend to listen to you..because she seems pretty mature and smart.
2006-11-28 14:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave your question a thumbs up because so many people think that it is "boring" to Not do drugs, club or have sex. Way to many people are judged by "clicks" group participation and whatever everyone else is doing. NOT saying that YOU do. Great question and shows concern for your cousin, if not merely a question of freedom of choice!
What do I think of a person like your cousin? Kudos to her! For not falling pray to the environment of negativity she is surrounded by............sounds like she is making some good decisions!
It isn't a matter of finding her "boring" it's that they can't do drugs with her? She doesn't support their addictions nor wish to gain one herself.........
So she doesn't do drugs, ho-around, club or talk "sex"?
I think she has higher morals and more self respect than the rest of the family that seems ( according to YOU ) to be a bunch of drug addicted losers that only involve other drug addicted losers in their lives.
Maybe your "cousin" will be the ONLY one that doesn't end up in REHAB, prison, or need Welfare and Medicaid to take care of her and her crack baby that results from sex while high, sex in clubs, sex on drugs, drugs with family, family on drugs with people in clubs on drugs, people that think she is boring so don't associate with her, thus belittle her own judgments and character.
What do I think of HER? Glad to know the family tradition has not gotten to her.
2006-11-28 22:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a #1 class winner and there will come a time that she will have many friends due to her decision .as for the rest of the family they're losers.and I can only pray that one day they will wake up and see the writing on the wall.
2006-11-28 22:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't judge someone because they're not into things you or anyone else is. It's about personality and what's inside. Not everyone cares about getting fuc*ed up all the time. People get over that stuff sooner or later anyhow.
2006-11-28 22:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good quality person she's the kind who will go far in life.
2006-11-28 22:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋