Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Let's say if your spouse works long hours (approx.16 hours a day 6-7 days a week) how many times per week would be normal in a relationship?

2006-11-28 14:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by rache0116 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a few girls have said i take things to harshley when they tell me stuff. I guess i just don't want to lose the one im with. what can i do?

2006-11-28 14:46:55 · 2 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 23 and my best friend is 15
is that okay??
I think it is
age is a number

2006-11-28 14:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Friends

me and my best friends have known each other for 3 years now. im afraid i wil lose them. they are like family to me. you would think we were sisters if you saw us. we know alot about each other we spend about 4-5 hours together we talk alot about things we love and things we dont like. im sacared to lose them. their family is like my second family. when i need someone to talk to i can always talk call and talk to on of them. thier sisters too . on is older the other same age as me. me and justine my best friend [the on the same age as me ]can talk forever. i dont want to lose her or her sister. do you have any ideas how we can stay together as best friends ? this weekend were going to go shopping and then out to lunch. plz help i need i deas. we dont go to the same shools either. which is really sad. because me and justine spent 2 years in the same school. i love my friends like my own family. i really dont want to lose them. plz sed me ideas to rhianna_bug@yahoo.com. thks so much

2006-11-28 14:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

help me thats all i know

2006-11-28 14:44:47 · 17 answers · asked by acebabie1 1 in Friends

Why do all girls fawn after athletic studs/pretty boys? Don't they ever realize there are other guys out there that wont cheat on them, wont just go for their pants? It seems like all they care about is looks, which I think is true.

2006-11-28 14:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Mike Rotch 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND SAY OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME. BUT IF I DONT SAY ANYTHING TO HER SHE WONT SAY ANYTHING TO ME LIKE IF I SEE HER IN THE HALL SHE WONT SAY HELLO ONLY IF I SAY IT FIRST THEN SHE WILL SMILE AND RESPOND. i feel l stupid because she only talks to me if i talk to herbut she smiles when we do talk. i REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD do i talk to her in the same place and often . is that too much?does she like me?am i irritating her ?is she pretending?oh and i am like a mix of white black more to black she is white is that ok?

2006-11-28 14:41:37 · 6 answers · asked by king of soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this really great guy online about 8 months ago now and he calls me almost every night but we haven't met yet. I haven't drove to go see him which is 3 hours from here and he has cut his phone calls to maybe once a week now. I haven't seen a recent picture of him but he's seen one of me. I don't know if this is to dangerous or should I trust him after we have had all these really good late night talks and I know alot about him. I feel like I shouldn't even mess with him but in a way I want to meet him and see where it goes with us? What do you think I should do?

2006-11-28 14:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Holly B 2 in Singles & Dating

Today, I received this e-mail from an FWB. Our relationship ended a couple of days ago when I said I didn't want to be friends:

I know that it's against the rules you set forth, but that won't stop me from being concerned about your health. I think I remember you saying that you were going to see the physician this past weekend about the your health. I prayed about it and I'm sure they aren't malignant, but it would be nice for you to affirm that as one human being to another. If that's completely taboo though, I hope you make it through this trying time victorious.

I don't know if I should respond to this e-mail or not. He put me through some unnecessary emotional drama and it's the reason why I ended our relationship. Why he would bother trying to maintain contact when I told him the relationship was over? Is he developing feelings for me or playing mind games?

P.S. He ended our sexual relationship by saying it wasn't right. We shouldn't be having sex. And he is serious

2006-11-28 14:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's for this school project we have to make a date book because we r learning about relationships in health class.

2006-11-28 14:40:39 · 2 answers · asked by Sweetie101 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is 16 years old and is really hard to shop for for his birthday or christmas. He loves UT and is always colecting things but he already has to much stuff. What should I do?

2006-11-28 14:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by Bridget 2 in Family

i've been with my bf for 6 years,we' ve been talking about marriage, but he never told me a date,until this past month we planned to get married this week.but on sunday i asked and he said "about that, we should put it of,my mom said we should wait" i got pissed off and told him if he didn't want to marry me then why the **** was he with me.so i broke it off.he kept calling and i din't pick up,i went to my friends house and drank,later i spoke to him and agreed to go to the movies,i got dropped off at his house and he said he didn't want to get married now,but in acouple of months, that he had talked to his parents and his family and he wanted to wait. i got mad again,threw th ring at him and ran off.he kept on pulling,so i hit him and said i was calling the cops.his mom came after me and offered a ride,i said no thanks,but they kept bugging so i sid ok.she started taking me back to him and i didn't want to,so i started talking ****.should i apologize to her? i got back with her son.

2006-11-28 14:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by ASHLEY 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 5 years, and talk about our future all the time. It seems that $ is the our biggest issue. He's so smart with investing money, but since we've joined our accounts, he's kind of controlling about my spending. Money doesn't rule my life, and I know that it's a big priority for him, so I don't know if that will cause problems for the future. And now, since he's insisting on a prenup, I feel as though he doesn't trust me. I've been nothing but trusting with my money in his hands, so I can't help but feel insulted. We love each other so much, he's my best friend, can we work through this?

2006-11-28 14:38:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 14:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by h.bowser 1 in Singles & Dating

i have dated both an airforce guy and a navy guy and they both look so dam sexy and it just makes me want to rip it right off of them.

2006-11-28 14:38:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. He said he like big girls...tada...I'm a big girl!
2. He asked if I like black guys. I do!
3. He says it means a lot to him when I say
BYE before I leave work, but I have to walk to another
department to do so.
4. He makes sure to say when we'll work together again.
Like when I left Monday...He said see ya Friday.
5. If I'm not there, he goes to my boss to see what's wrong.
I've been sick a lot this year.
6. He says he wouldn't mind coming over to help me wash my car for free. He made everyone else pay.
7. He kinda stays away from me but watches me from a distance.
8. He says I matter more than all the other females at work.
9. I thought he had a girlfriend, but he said she's not a gf. What is "just a friend"?
10. He mentiones me to other people when I'm not anywhere around and they tell me later. Like he brags on my music to friends.
He jokingly asked me to GO TO HAWAII with him. I said I'd have to know what "this" was before I'd go ...He said You're my friend! So?

2006-11-28 14:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate being cocky or arrogant. However, there is this sweet girl that I like and who likes me. I asked her out once, and she said not yet. I was about to ask her out again, but a good looking guy has become close to her. The problem I have is not his looks though...its his *********, which makes him very popular with the ladies. For example, I complimented the girl on her jacket, and he was nearby and said "I gave it to her" when I know he didn't. The girl loved his response. He has said a number of such "lies" to sound cocky and I can tell that this girl (and a lot of others) love it -- he is popular with the ladies, but all the guys who know him dislike him. He plays on women's insecurities too, and than ditches them.

I felt like cursing him when he did these things -- and I am stronger than him. However, I have never been cocky in that way, and never put down other guys if I am interested in a woman.

I don't know how to respond to this. And I know he will hurt her too.

2006-11-28 14:35:18 · 2 answers · asked by Apeman 1 in Singles & Dating

This is in regards to my girlfriend, possibly fiancee, who says that I don't ask her enough questions and claims that I don't really 'know the real me'. This is a long distance relationship that's been going on for 8 plus years. We've seen each other quite a few times over the years, with her sometimes coming here and me sometimes going there. Tentative plans are for her to come here to stay until I have my time in where I work, and then we'll go from there.

2006-11-28 14:34:58 · 4 answers · asked by Joey 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my soon to be wife are thinking of eloping rather then a wedding any one have any places to suggest.we are from boston and thinking in the new england area but open to anywhere other then vegas.

2006-11-28 14:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by massslave 1 in Weddings

I'm a short kid i'm pretty cute and i'm really funny but deep down i'm shy around girls so i never really asked anyone out ever. Girls are always like "ur so cute i just want to....." but it's never an actual interest in me none of those girls actually like me in a dating fashion. Please help me i'm am in a dilemma and all my friends have had girlfriends before except me it's pretty embarassing and my time is running out i mean i am in grade 10. So plz. tell me what i should do and how to let girls know that i am just like any other boy they think becuz i'm short i'm innocent and don't know anything. anyone thanks alot.

2006-11-28 14:33:26 · 19 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

on friday night,over thanksgiving break,my boyfriend texted me when i asked if we could talk for awhile,that he was drunk.his (25 yr old?) brother is a firefighter,& my bf was helping out over there,& he said his bro & the other fire fighters let him drink.he's over 18, so there's no problem there,but i'm just worried about him,b/c he's kinda wild & tends to get in trouble.i've seen what happens plenty of times when friends got addicted to alcohol,& i don't want it to happen to my bf.i luv him so much,& i'm just really worried about him,that even though he says he won't get addicted,i can't help wondering that he might b/c of him being kinda wild & his tendency for trouble.he smoked 1 time too,but he hasn't done that since,so i'm not worried about that,unless it happens again.but was it right of me to tell on him,b/c i'm so worried about him?we're both in high school too,senior yr.i just don't want him to get addicted,& his dreams get gone b/c of alcohol.he doesn't know i told either.

2006-11-28 14:33:17 · 7 answers · asked by K.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

My ex got in touch with me after quite some time. She said she wants to meet up as friends which I dont have a problem with, but she insists nobody sees us and it's all in secret! I dont get it, if were just meeting as mates then why the cloak and dagger routine ???

2006-11-28 14:32:44 · 6 answers · asked by loopyhaze 3 in Singles & Dating

if so, what type?

2006-11-28 14:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

name store, describe why, tell the pay, and say the age requirements

2006-11-28 14:32:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm just curious. i know some people who have this one thing that they would travel hundreds of miles to do or to get or to find or to see.....what's yours?

2006-11-28 14:32:11 · 19 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

I look at ladies, in the street, in the mall, etc., for more than a couple of seconds, with a pleasant face and a Mona Lisa smile. Indirectly I am saying that " I appreciate the way you present yourself". Do ladies liked to be looked at, or do they resent it?

2006-11-28 14:31:58 · 22 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy on new years he came up to me and we chetted and starred in to each others eyes and then kissed we dated for a bit and i se him out every weekend, when i get male attentin he gets very jealous even when we have broken up for a bit and he sees me with another guy, just talking he has grabbed a girl and brought her over right in front of my face and started to hug her and then turn and look at me..1 why has he done this? Also i text him to apologise for all the fighting and said my friends were laughing at some of the things that had happed he texted back 'dont worry about it it doesnt matter. Glad you and your friends can laugh about it. Take care. what does this mean? I cant stop thinking about him does this mean im in love with him?

2006-11-28 14:30:29 · 2 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 14:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My goal at the moment is to finish my degree and move out of this country and find a woman oversees and have a family. Is that something anyone out there reading this would do?

2006-11-28 14:30:03 · 4 answers · asked by scorpion11x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married to someone I adored.........he began being obsessed with porn and later found a girlfriend. I found an email from her to him a year before and he said she was just a friend but it was obvious from the contents of the email that they were much more than that. A year later I found evidence that the relationship was continuing. I left him............after 22 years of marriage he won't even speak to me or give me a reason why. He just led me to believe that he wasn't interested in my looks anymore.

2006-11-28 14:29:26 · 18 answers · asked by Callie 1 in Marriage & Divorce