Why do all girls fawn after athletic studs/pretty boys? Don't they ever realize there are other guys out there that wont cheat on them, wont just go for their pants? It seems like all they care about is looks, which I think is true.
2006-11-28 14:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Mike Rotch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? What circles do you run in? Maybe the nature of your quesiton says more about you than aout "all girls." I am a girl and know many women, including myself, who are not like this at all.
It is tough, especially being young, existing in a world which puts so much emphasis on physicaly appearance. This is not a gender specific problem, though- It's so hard for both girls AND boys. I wish I could help you but it makes me sad as well (and I am pretty). If you are young, I can assure you that many people tend to mature.
Edit: I was thinking about your question and felt a little funny about it. I think the girls who go for pretty and preppy boys are pretty and preppy girls themselves. Is your question being a bit hypocritical? Complaining about why you can't get pretty and preppy girls because they're going after similar guys when you look over all the other girls?
I have never dated a jock-type in my life. I've dated attractive men but when I see an abercrombie boy I tend to just... (sorry this is bitchy)... act like, and pretty much believe, he doesn't exist. That is not my world. My values are placed in creativity, independence, intelligence, honestly, kindness, and a man has to impress me with at least one of these things before I take a real notice in him.
2006-11-28 14:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest there are a lot of girls out there that do go for those types of men. B/c they want sex real fast or they want to brag and show their ripped abed bf . They think it's the perfect catch and while them men can go out and get anything they want b.c they have the looks and style. That's why this world is in trouble now cuz people judge other of their looks. Its what a person has in common and personality that matters. Have you ever heard the old saying "Its not always greener on the other side of the fence"? . Some day you will find that lucky one that will treat you right and love you for the right reasons.
2006-11-28 14:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for one, Not all athletic studs and pretty boys cheat on their girls.
Second, You are bitter. You need to get over the facts of life and instead, ask yourself, what do they have that I dont?
Third, women arent attracted just to their looks, its their attitude and confidence. Women are attracted to dominate figures, men that have back bones and strong sense of self. These guys are very sure of themselves becuase they get constant reassurance from everyone else.
Fourth, Some women just want them to get in their pants. Ever think of that?
Fifth, both women AND men need to find the people they love attractive. if they dont, it will never work out no matter how wonderful the person is. I already know this, becuase I tried going out with people that were wonderful, but I had no attraction to them. I thought, maybe I could look past that. I couldnt. That is the way it works out for me and I rather not waste their time. I want to be passionate and very attracted to my man. And sometimes that is the way it works out.
Learn the facts of life, accept them, learn to manipulate the system for your own deals and you will be happy with a girl YOU find attractive!
2006-11-28 14:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not all girls. Just like its not all boys. Some people are shallow. They may not know it, but its true. Your mind/body acts faster than your heart dose. So you decide things by looks(eyecandy) and whatever else before your heart can really decide. Thats why they never work.(relationships)
At least if you find a girl, maybe she'll be THE ONE. Your love.
Good Luck
2006-11-28 14:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are pretty shallow when it comes down to it. They make a fuss about guys being visually oriented (T & A) but take a look around and I'm sure you'll see more fat ugly chicks getting lucky than fat ugly guys.
One explanation is that it dates from earlier stages of human evolution. Short version : women haven't evolved.
2006-11-28 15:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason guys go after big boobed/ thin girls. It's natrual. WE don't always date that kind of guy but of course we admire them.
I'm sure you have had many a thing for great looking girls and kinda ignored a plainer one. That's life!
2006-11-28 14:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young girls go for appearances. The older and wiser we become, we realize what's really important in life. Looks fade, muscles turn to flab. Good personality, brains, respect...all those things go a long way!
2006-11-28 14:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by LMP25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree I never go for the athletic type. My type of man is a more quite in door type. I hate being around lots of people so I guess that is my reasoning. I don't date someone unless I can trust them and when I trust them , I trust them.
2006-11-28 14:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess its just like how guys like slim, curvy and pretty gals. Some gals may like the athletic sort of guys. It depends greatly on individual thinking and age.
2006-11-28 14:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay no attention to those girls after those guys... they are as petty as the guys they seek. There are lots of great girls that are not after the jocks and they are way better in the long run.
2006-11-28 14:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋