Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

don't tell me that it's wrong because I KNOW IT IS WROOOOOONG
but I can't help it, I love him but he has no idea, and I have no idea if he has feeling for me either, he is married and I am married, of course, too.
should I tell him? or should I tell my husband? what should I do?

2006-11-28 23:36:09 · 25 answers · asked by Gr8 G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyway he tells me yesterday he wants to leave her and that hes had enough,shall i say something to her?i spoke to her on the phone last nhight and she seems down she also says shes had enough,so hears the big problem they have no kidds but are very close to my child,im worried about the efect it would have on her,also i live with my mum and dad and small child in a 3 bed semi,she would have to live with us [coz of breakdown shes still not right]and we dont have much room,we could convert the loft but shed fall down the down the hole when shes pissed,any advice how i can get them to stey together and make it work.

2006-11-28 23:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is what people say about him.

A single man, mid twenties who's been there and done it all. Doesnt smoke, drink or any record of sorts, save for a few speeding tickets. Shy, yet outgoing. Soft spoken, yet makes his voice heard. Deep voice, like the growl of a lion. Stubborn yet liberal. Jack of all trades. Smart and Funny, loving and strong. Fears nothing but God. Loyal to family and friends and has never cheated on Girlfriends.

He spends most time alone in his house, pacing with his hands to the back. Lost in thought or in a good book, and gazing toward the stars. Always weighing issues and seeing different points of view.

He's not crazy nor insane, he just tends to brood often. People, friends and family are always trying to get him to socialize more, yet he maintains steadfast in his ways. When he does go out with a group, people gravitate to him because they see him as "mysterious."

Honest opinions please.

2006-11-28 23:32:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u think the real meaning of the love

2006-11-28 23:32:06 · 15 answers · asked by noSSer 1 in Friends

All guys wants sex!

how can you be sure that they will "stick around" after they get it, and want a relationship with you?

2006-11-28 23:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Call me stupid! but this is for real, I dont really know when I care about sumone or the kind of things u feel when u care. Well the case is different for my family members, but outside that I dont know if i have ever cared abt anyone, I want to learn how to do this.

Dont care if am the only one in the world with this problem.

2006-11-28 23:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Henry I 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl I love can never be with me. Should I just be alone my whole life? I wouldn't want to be with somebody just to not be lonely.

2006-11-28 23:29:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im so stuck! I dont kno what to get my boyfriend for christmas, what would be a good gift for a guy? someone plz help!!

2006-11-28 23:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by kassie07 1 in Singles & Dating

pls help me.i have sex with my girlfriend and she is not even sixteen(15 going to reach 16)we are both willing to do tat!is not rape!as some of my fren say tat will been sue.can someone tell me tat how to prevent this happen?and if i had been sue,is there any where tat i can win the case or no need to go to jail?i am 19 years old.thanks for ur help.thank u very much~

2006-11-28 23:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by Jason M 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend critisezes me all the time,even when i know i look good. she's say "thants an ugly outfit" or "are you trying to wear makeup"
it really bothers me
what should i do about it?

2006-11-28 23:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by lala 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 23:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 23:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it that makes it good to watch?

2006-11-28 23:24:37 · 17 answers · asked by gomphus 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a supervisory position at work....when my last girlfriend would show up late for a date, I would inform her that she had just earned a half an infraction for being late..then I would pull out the notebook I keep in my back pocket, mark it down, and hand her a written warning. If my gf did something to really anger me, I would give her a suspension, in which she couldn't see me for 3 days. And just recently was the final straw--she wanted some time apart, so I told her she was fired. I'm sorry, but I need a gf that is going to be a team player! Do you think I'm asking too much?

2006-11-28 23:24:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad was extreamly abusive my entire life. Beat my mother constantly. tortured my sister and I. He drank and beat and raped all of us. He went so far as to hold us at gun point near the end. A few years back he wrecked an ATV and is brain damaged now. I hate him so much I feel he deserves this pain and torture. I hate him enough to laugh at his funeral with no emotion at all. He was a monster to us. How do I get over this and move on? How do I exclude him from my thoughts? How do I not feel guilty for abandoning him and never speaking to him when he now has the mental capacity of a 12 year old child? He has no memory of how he was. He crys and calls me constantly begging for me to come see him. Like a kid, but all I see is the hate I've allways known hiding behind those eyes. PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-11-28 23:22:11 · 15 answers · asked by Tha Syko Clown 3 in Family

2006-11-28 23:20:33 · 19 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend is about 7 months now.. and I felt that his family doesnt like me.. me and his sister had a fight and argued before because she wants me to break up with his brother and offcourse i didnt like that to happen because I really love my boyfriend so much.. his parents talked to me before and asked me if I could just leave their son so he could concentrate more on his studies.. i admit, that hurted me so badly.. though,i know how my boyfriend loves me and cares for me.. i'm still confused.. If you're in my situation,would you just respect his family's decision or won't you just ignore them and hold on to your promise with your boyfriend that no one can break you apart from each other?..

2006-11-28 23:18:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 23:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by wan_832009 1 in Friends

k like there is this guy, jessey and i love him soo much, ever since grade 7, but we dated on and off all of grade 8 and i dumped him the second day of summer vacation. and i dont wanna date nne 1 cuz i like him. he liikes me still but he got sent to a group home that is like near niagra falls.(far frum here) and hes coming back in february so should i wait for him? cuz i have boiis asking me out like theres no tomorrow, but there is no tomorrow without jessey:(:(:(

2006-11-28 23:15:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 23:11:00 · 26 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have found out i am pregnant and i have split up with my boyfriend as he a violent person.
now he knows i am having twins and he wants me back he keeps texting me telling me how much he loves me but every time i go back to him he hits me or cheats on me.
he also takes drugs and dont want my children to grow up with this i dont know what to do any more can any one help me ? i do love him but dont want to risk my childrens lives !!

2006-11-28 23:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf age 50 does not want sex, he tells it is not me, But i think it is, or he is getting it someother place. What can i do????

2006-11-28 23:09:30 · 17 answers · asked by deedee40_99 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 23:09:19 · 22 answers · asked by tinaa799 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its Not Me that looks at porn its my b.friend! he dose mot touch me if he has had his porn it can go on for weeks i found over 1000 sites on his p.c today thru a programme am i really that bad for looking? after all he is giving all his sexual effort 2 that **** an not me! we been 2gether 2an half years weve live 2gether 4 2 of them an last year he told me he had stoped. when i founf a mag that got me started looking on his pc. when i try to come on to him he dosent want it AT ALL so i no hes been looking its usally a friggin b.j once a day AT LEAST! he tells me he still loves me as much as ever an attracted 2 me? CONFUSING! Masn will he ever stop looking at it or at least stop lieing. i told him if he wants porn in his life he HAS 2 satisfy me 2 as well as him self! but no change. i really love this guy an dont wanna leave him ive tryed talking asking leaving notes everything but no change. i asked if its possible 2 hide porn on a p.c cause i wunderd if he was doing it? so im notaperv

2006-11-28 23:09:00 · 2 answers · asked by pongo_jay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 23:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by sophieb 7 in Singles & Dating

im in love with a girl n i went after her for nearly two years. But sadly she never say yes n keeping me waiting. Then i went to oversea to continue my studies. During this time we are still keeping in touch with each other. Via studies our relationship is getting 'wider'. Then i noe a girl here n started a relationship. Months after, the girl back then called me n said tat she misses me n wanted to see me plus waiting for me.I dont know what to do but i still like her.What should i do?? Im really stucked now. Cant go neither right or left.T_T

2006-11-28 23:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by alex 1 in Singles & Dating

So its about 4 a.m and there is this guy who does the clean up in the office.. He likes me and wants to take me out.. i'm not into him but i like to flirt just for s hi ts and giggles.. How can I tell him that I'm not interested without hurting his feelings...

2006-11-28 23:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by dallas 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 23:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by niborio 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 23:03:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl about 1 year back i proposed her and she refused but again after a long time i have not forgotten her in between i too left her but after a long time she has get back to me ie she has started talking to me and becomeing more friendly then even before but in this time others also proposed her and she refused them too but among them she talks to me only i am so dam confused i dont know what to do i love her very much i too think that she loves me but she never express it I don’t know to propose her or not ……someone please help me to find answer to what to do she is so confusing that one min she is best friend and other min she is away from me she looks at me and then again forget me.. tell me what is in her mind…

2006-11-28 23:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by goodguy 2 in Singles & Dating