k like there is this guy, jessey and i love him soo much, ever since grade 7, but we dated on and off all of grade 8 and i dumped him the second day of summer vacation. and i dont wanna date nne 1 cuz i like him. he liikes me still but he got sent to a group home that is like near niagra falls.(far frum here) and hes coming back in february so should i wait for him? cuz i have boiis asking me out like theres no tomorrow, but there is no tomorrow without jessey:(:(:(
2006-11-28 23:15:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe u r still a toddler .. Concetrate with ur studies at the moment .
2006-11-28 23:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Jessey expecting you to sit at home and not spend time with any of your other friends whilst he's away? I doubt it. You're only 14 and if he's a reasonable guy, which I assume he is or you wouldn't like him so much, then he wouldn't want that would he? If a boy asks you out consider, do you want to spend time with that boy or not, regardless of your feelings for Jessey. After all he's only asking for a date, not marriage. Just going out with another boy doesn't mean that you can't still spend time with Jessey when he comes back. You needed be deceitful. You can be honest with the other boys and with Jessey. At 14 you should have lots of friends, boys and girls. February will arrive soon enough whether you go out or whether you stay at home feeling sorry for yourself. Which option do you prefer?
2006-11-29 07:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other guys, and wait for jessey too.
If you like him more than the new guys break it off and hook up with jess.
just make sure you tell jess thats your plan and be sweet and honest about it,
its possible it will upset him but he'll have to deal.
and I think he'd understand that your just starting the dating scene, and that after you've dated a few guys , you'll be looking at him from a diffrent perspective.
and have a little more experience at relationships.
I hope your still a virgin.,
and I hope you stay that way.
but if not please use condoms.
Good luck
Meg
2006-11-29 07:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age I don't think that is love. It might infatuation. There's is nothing wrong in dating as long as it is friendly or group dates. Don't be too serious with love there are so many things instore for you. You will find your prince on the right place and time. Study first, it will help you in the future.
2006-11-29 07:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look m8 u are only 14 so i think u sould go ut on a few dates and whenn he gets back go from there... u never kno u could be missinout on somethin good while ur waitin... if u and him are meant to be together then there is no harm with u goin out on dates and havin some fun....
2006-11-29 07:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. You have plenty of time to worry about boys. You should be putting all this time into your school work, as you cannot get anywhere nowadays without a high school education.
2006-11-29 07:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. You shouldn't be dating at all. How can this guy possibly provide for you?
2006-11-29 07:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are 14 and i don't think you can actual say that in know love is.You have a long way to go and am sure you will meet other people.
2006-11-29 07:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol enjoy playing cos im telling guys can be really hard at time so enjoy life before you have to think about guys at this stage
2006-11-29 07:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by lena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ever heard the saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder? well i can guess thats what's happening to you. or then again it might just be a crush
2006-11-29 07:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋