Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

i know dating is suppose to be fun i had a really bad relationship it has been at least 2 yrs and i vowed that i would never let another man get close to me again unless i knew that he really cared i am seeing someone now been about 2-3 wks he cant come to my home he wanted me to cook for him i aint cooking for no one i will even lay off the calling dont want to much into nonthing until i know i am just so scared that i know if i dont put anything in it i wont be hurt am i to overboard sometimes it is almost easier not to date so i wont have to go through this i was always th yes woman not any more giving when i saw red flags cause i thought that would keep him around

2006-11-28 20:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 20:10:10 · 7 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It was 2 years ago at a family party for my aunt. Well, my uncle was VERY drunk and I was standing at the food table and he just came over, SMACKED and GRABBED my behind! He didn't let go of it either! He said "You're my FAVORITE neice." and he stood there rubbing my arms from behind me for the LONGEST time before he walked away... I was horrified. I never told anyone about it and everytime I see that man drunk, I totally avoid him at all costs. What would you have done in a situation like this? My mom is very close to my aunt and I'm afraid if I say something, their relationship will be on the rocks. I absolutely love my aunt, I'm just terrified of my uncle, I have nothing to say to him at all, I'm really scared of him still, 2 years later because he always just LOOKS at me and I don't want him .... I don't know. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. What do you think?

2006-11-28 20:09:05 · 9 answers · asked by sally b 4 in Family

How can online love really work? You don't really know the other person, and most pepole lie about themselves online, and it can be quite dangerous. Long distance love hardly ever if ever works out, so why would online love work out? What do you think?

2006-11-28 20:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by guts_spunk_moxie 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think i look like a woman? How can i make people stop asking what gender i am ? should i get plastic surgery or something?

2006-11-28 20:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Nol 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 20:08:38 · 1 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 20:08:03 · 12 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and I think I have a crush on a girl who delivers the mail everyday round where I live. Anyway one day she actually spoke to me because she noticed I was smiling at her she smiled back and said morning to me I said morning back usually when I smile at girls this does not happen she is the first one to say something when she noticed me smile at her. What I need to know is was she just being polite or do you think she likes me.

2006-11-28 20:06:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had that fear w/ every boyfriend; twice it happened, too. HOW do I get over the fear?

2006-11-28 20:06:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lost a baby girl in march due to spontaneous birth. her father n i split because we dealt with the pain in different ways. i got depressed and suicidal and he turned to heroin. i really loved him so much but needles make me sick and id never be with him again because im all set with catching Aids or Hep or whatever else may be around. but now i cant seemto find anyone. i feel lonely.. i work work work and that sall to keep busy and when i do meet people i kinda shun them off. how do i start being more social and how do i let someone back in?

2006-11-28 20:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by julie092179 3 in Singles & Dating

But now both of us start finding that we are getting bored from each other...we use to talk endless the whole day but now we seldome talk (2-3 times a day that to very less) so if we merry Do you think it would be a successful marriege?

2006-11-28 20:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by sureshflourish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

MY FRIENDS EX AND I WORK TOGETHER SO I DONT KNOW IF THAT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT....SHE PLANNED ON GETTING PREGNANT FOR A WHILE WITH OUT TELLING HIM! I GUESS IT WAS TO TRY TO KEEP HIM CUZ THEIR RELATIONSHIP WASNT GOOD FROM THE START...SHE FINALLY GOT PREGNANT BUT HE STILL DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH HER...WE STARTED FOOLING AROUND AND NOW IT HAS BECOME MORE THAN THAT! THE THING IS THAT EVERYBODY KNOWS HIM AS HER GUY, SO I FEEL AS IF I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO INTUDUCE HIM TO ANY OF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY BECAUSE THEY ALL KNOW SHE GOT PREGNANT AND DONT KNOW THE WHOLE STORY. SO IN THEIR EYES SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM AND I WILL ALWAYS BE THE *****!!! THE THING IS THAT IVE NEVER GOTTEN ALONG WITH SOME ONE SO WELL!!! SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I GO FOR THE WHOLE THING? IF SO, HOW LONG SHOULD WE WAIT TILL WE GO PUBLIC WITH IT?

2006-11-28 20:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY FRIENDS EX AND I WORK TOGETHER SO I DONT KNOW IF THAT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT....SHE PLANNED ON GETTING PREGNANT FOR A WHILE WITH OUT TELLING HIM! I GUESS IT WAS TO TRY TO KEEP HIM CUZ THEIR RELATIONSHIP WASNT GOOD FROM THE START...SHE FINALLY GOT PREGNANT BUT HE STILL DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH HER...WE STARTED FOOLING AROUND AND NOW IT HAS BECOME MORE THAN THAT! THE THING IS THAT EVERYBODY KNOWS HIM AS HER GUY, SO I FEEL AS IF I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO INTUDUCE HIM TO ANY OF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY BECAUSE THEY ALL KNOW SHE GOT PREGNANT AND DONT KNOW THE WHOLE STORY. SO IN THEIR EYES SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM AND I WILL ALWAYS BE THE *****!!! THE THING IS THAT IVE NEVER GOTTEN ALONG WITH SOME ONE SO WELL!!! SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I GO FOR THE WHOLE THING? IF SO, HOW LONG SHOULD WE WAIT TILL WE GO PUBLIC WITH IT?

2006-11-28 20:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband met a woman on myspace and i found out he was talking crap about me with her. He told her he didnt love me anymore and that he is "stuck" in our marriage, amongst other not so nice things.... I confronted him and he told me he was lying to her. They ended up having cybersex after only knowing each other for 5 days. He says it is over with her and he wants to work on our relationship. I have reason to believe he is still comunicating with her. Am I stupid to think he can't love me and talk like that about me.....? Would you talk bad about someone you love with a stranger?

2006-11-28 20:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by Real 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Want it to be a surprise. Cud u see my previous Q pls 4 details. Thank you very much.

2006-11-28 20:00:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 23 years old and I just moved across the country to go to school. I took a part time job at a clothing store about a month ago. My boss is 25 and I have been attracted to her ever since I started.The atmosphere we work in allows for alot of contact between us. We are always joking around and touching each other in playful manners.I think we have great chemistry and I really enjoy my time with her. I know it is typically a bad idea to get involved with a co-worker but I am willing to leave the job if we have a chance at a relationship. However I really enjoy the job and if the crush is not mutual, I would like to stay. How can I find out how she feels without risking a friendship if she is not intrested?

2006-11-28 20:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by Rusty 1 in Singles & Dating

U see someone...u instantly get connected to him or her...u feel u know that person. u met him or her somewhere. suddenly u get the feeling that u can read this person's mind. moreover, your love interest also feels in that same way. thats why he or she keeps looking at u in a weird way.

2006-11-28 19:59:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No alcohol suggestions. Too predictable. I really need help. I try to have something unique every year. Thanx to those who answer! :-)

2006-11-28 19:58:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, I'm almost 30 and past relationships, including my xhubby pursued me... I'm nothing special but now I want someone that does not reciprocate. I'm beside myself as to how to act and what to do? Guess I should have went thru this as a kid, married young and don't know what to do now? Feel stupid everytime I am in his presence!

2006-11-28 19:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by Trisha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 19:56:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean really , after you reach the age that I am at, you would think that some people would get over themselves. But girls are still backstabbing bitches and guys are still dipshit morons.

2006-11-28 19:55:40 · 6 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 19:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 19:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been real nasty to my in laws to the point of quarelling openly and giving each other the cold shoulder. The reasons are too long-winded to explain here. So what should I do to so-called improve the r'ship? Do I HAVE to lose my pride or eat humble pie? any other way out? If I dun wish to apologise, what else can I do?

2006-11-28 19:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs Kee 2 in Family

We see each other about twice a month for about 3 days each time Sometimes more The first year was great and we both got along so well&handled the long distance great. We had a great sex life. This year she moved into the sorority house and goes to frat parties all the time and says she doesnt have as much time to just sit around and talk with me like before She has gone to dances with other guys that she says are only her friends but she hangs out with them quite a bit. Lately she said that she doesn't know if she is attracted to me and doesn't make out with me or have sex, its been a little over 6 weeks since any making out. Everytime that I try to make out with her she just has her mouth closed. However, she pecks me on the lips and tells me that she loves me every night & is very cuddly. Her mom and i get along great & i hang w/her family all the time. Is she interested in someone else but is confused? Or does she not want to hurt me? Am I just paranoid? what should i do? HELP!!!

2006-11-28 19:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by sean p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:50:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

tells me the sooner I find abetter job the sooner we can get married. He really wants me to go into phlebotony and thats not whta I want..Should I tell him I feel like he is pressuring me?

2006-11-28 19:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4 in Singles & Dating

It's been the toughest year of my life. If you don't believe that, check out my 360. I am trying and trying, but the upcoming holidays are making me even more overwhelmed and melancholy.I need to chill, but I just can't. Any ideas?

2006-11-28 19:48:37 · 9 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

shutting every time

2006-11-28 19:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by mmr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships