MY FRIENDS EX AND I WORK TOGETHER SO I DONT KNOW IF THAT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT....SHE PLANNED ON GETTING PREGNANT FOR A WHILE WITH OUT TELLING HIM! I GUESS IT WAS TO TRY TO KEEP HIM CUZ THEIR RELATIONSHIP WASNT GOOD FROM THE START...SHE FINALLY GOT PREGNANT BUT HE STILL DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH HER...WE STARTED FOOLING AROUND AND NOW IT HAS BECOME MORE THAN THAT! THE THING IS THAT EVERYBODY KNOWS HIM AS HER GUY, SO I FEEL AS IF I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO INTUDUCE HIM TO ANY OF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY BECAUSE THEY ALL KNOW SHE GOT PREGNANT AND DONT KNOW THE WHOLE STORY. SO IN THEIR EYES SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM AND I WILL ALWAYS BE THE *****!!! THE THING IS THAT IVE NEVER GOTTEN ALONG WITH SOME ONE SO WELL!!! SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I GO FOR THE WHOLE THING? IF SO, HOW LONG SHOULD WE WAIT TILL WE GO PUBLIC WITH IT?
2006-11-28 20:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh hes not a dead beat dad!!! hes tried to be there for her financially and emotionally..jus not romantically!!!
2006-11-30 20:15:00 · update #1
all so morally wrong!
2006-11-28 20:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is "messed up" and irresponsible for bringing a kid into the world just to keep a guy.
As for you two, if you really love this guy, don't let friends and such tear it apart, by saying "what if's" all the time. Just think about yourself, and if he's okay with going public. It doesn't matter what other people think as long as you two are happy.
Would you rather be with him-and chance ppl being weird about it. OR Not be with him- and have everyone as they are ? You never know, take a chance, if you love him, then i say it's worth it. Love is a awesome thing, Don't let it go for something so superficial.
2006-11-28 20:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call yourself her friend? what is your definition of friendship and the do's and the don't of it?Some things are just off limits when if comes to friendship which you seem to know nothing about.How do you think your friend will feel when she finds out...she will be destroyed and she will never trust anyone again to be her friend.Friends are to be value and not taken for granted a true friend is something that we do not come across everyday.True friendship is a once and a life time thing no matter what she went though with him that gives you no right to feel that it is okay for you to be anything more to him then a associate.My God she is your friend and the mother of his child rather they be together or not.You have truly stepped out side of your boundary of friendship he was and is off limits to you.If this is all the respect that you have for yourself then no wonder you have no respect for you friend.I assure you nothing good will come out of this.What you have done to your friend will also be done to you and worst.Men come and go all the time but friends are forever.
2006-11-28 20:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by reree41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a close friend don't do it. He is only a guy, and an ureliable one, it is not worth ruining a friendship over. You can't just blame her for the breakup or the pregnancy - it takes two. I think he is fooling you big time and you will be heart broken when the baby is born and they have a tie that you do not share.
2006-11-28 20:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are another one of those people I would like to see jump off a very tall building. Next you will be wanting to get pregnant to keep him. Hello, is anybody home. Have a little self respect and find a guy all by yourself instead of f uc k in g your friends hand me downs.
2006-11-28 20:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you feel you are doing the right thing. If you are then just go ahead and do what you feel is right.
We are always judged by others and cannot control their judgement. What is important is how we judge ourselves. If you are OK do it.
Take care and all the best
2006-11-28 20:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how good friend u guys are. i mean if hes a dead beat to his kid and all, you my as well protect yourself and find someone better.now on her i hate scandalous bitches trying to get preggo and make sum more guy the *******. id say follow ur heart **** it u only live once
2006-11-28 20:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by julie092179 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're fidgeting with fire. your genitals are affecting your techniques i'm sorry to declare. you're incapable of thinking long term in this state. you sound youthful. bypass discover yet another and enable them to choose the mess.
2016-10-04 12:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do itur friend is who is important not a lad they come and go but friends are foreva
2006-11-28 20:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋