We see each other about twice a month for about 3 days each time Sometimes more The first year was great and we both got along so well&handled the long distance great. We had a great sex life. This year she moved into the sorority house and goes to frat parties all the time and says she doesnt have as much time to just sit around and talk with me like before She has gone to dances with other guys that she says are only her friends but she hangs out with them quite a bit. Lately she said that she doesn't know if she is attracted to me and doesn't make out with me or have sex, its been a little over 6 weeks since any making out. Everytime that I try to make out with her she just has her mouth closed. However, she pecks me on the lips and tells me that she loves me every night & is very cuddly. Her mom and i get along great & i hang w/her family all the time. Is she interested in someone else but is confused? Or does she not want to hurt me? Am I just paranoid? what should i do? HELP!!!
2006-11-28 19:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by sean p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her, be upfront. Have patience if she says "I dont know"
College does weird things to people man, I can attest to that.
2006-11-28 19:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the spark that you two had is gone and she seems to have lost the interest in the relationship and sees other guys and sort of has moved on! in my opinion if she cared about you she would find the time of the day to spend with you and talk with you yet she does not which contradicts the words that she loves you! second of all she would show more interest in spending time with you. third, she would be more affectionate and not as she puts it "confused". fourth, her actions tell you more than words can! she tells you that she loves you yet she will not get close to you and tells you that she does not know how she feels about you! that is her way of saying that she does not like you the way that she liked you before or has the same emotions and feelings towards you!she is telling you to move on from all her actions and that she is interesed in someone elsel and she does not want to hurt you! you should break up with her and move on if she she is so distant towards you and makes all those remarks! find yourself someone who is better than this girl!
2006-11-28 20:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes having more fun at those parties and dances then hanging out with you. Shes probably confused tho. Maybe if you took her out to dances or took her out like those frat boys do maybe she'll want to hang out. im kinda feelin the same way with my bf...hes getting kinda boring becuz we dont go out as much as in the beginging so i go out dancing with my other friend. But theres different situations just do somethin fun with her when you guys hang out next time. Shes prob not ready to be in any serious relationships at this point in time. Just be friends maybe shell realize sometime in the future that your a great guy compared to those frats.
2006-11-28 20:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by chika0284 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 12:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship its not a good idea to make up your own assumptions. Best if you talk to her face to face and tell her about your feelings. Though its good that you get along with her parents BUT at the end its her decision not her parents. Ultimately all parents want their children to be happy.
Good luck.
2006-11-28 19:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is necessarily interested in someone else, but I'd say the spark is definitely gone for you two. Time to move on.
2006-11-28 19:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. ask her and ask her to behonest, then u both will be on the same page and can work things out.and tell her how u feel and then ask her, listen and reply slowly
2006-11-28 19:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL,TELL HER YOU WOULD RATHER HERE THE TRUTH,EVEN IF IT IS PAINFUL,IT WOULD HURT WORSE TO FIND OUT LATER.
2006-11-28 20:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um she isn't intrested in you as much she is most likely cheating on you too
2006-11-28 19:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by :):):) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like she's in college and you're not. i think it's time to move on.
2006-11-28 20:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋