I've had that fear w/ every boyfriend; twice it happened, too. HOW do I get over the fear?
2006-11-28 20:06:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to just let go. Worrying if it will happen will not stop it from happening. Just enjoy the one you're with and if it's meant to last, it will.
2006-11-28 20:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by frozen339 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being worried about being cheated on is something that is just built in - we are all afraid of rejection and that the person we are with will find someone else. It may be that you are attracted to the sorts of men that are more prone to cheating (I should know, I always go for the guy that I know can destroy me!) just make sure that you don't start doubting yourself because your exs' made stupid decisions that hurt you.
The only way to get over the fear is to find someone that loves you - anyone that truly cares about you won't ever want to cause you that amount of pain. The Prince Charming's do exist - but you have to wade through the toads first to appreciate them all the better when you find them.
Take Care
Lx
2006-11-29 04:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,cheating is part of guys,however good u r,a guy will always cheat on u,but that doesnot mean that he does not love u,its just a guy thing and theres nothing much u can do about it,unless if he does it on pupose and always lets u know that he did,then that is were the problem is.Once u cant change something,u just have to get used to living with it.otherwise,get used to it,and may be try to trust your boyfriend,it will help u get over it.
2006-11-29 06:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brendar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always, but alot of the time its because of their age. I think most guys would probably never want to really settle down, and just live the "bachelor lifestyle" like hugh heffner or something. But, its worse when they are younger. I think, eventually maybe in the 20's age group some guys are ready for a family, while others arent ready til late 20'-30's. So...in other words, if they cheat, its because they arent ready to commit to anything. Its not you!
2006-11-29 04:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by EAT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big part of a relationship. Trust yourself... And the rest will work itself out... Not every guy is a cheater... There are nice one's left in the world too... Good luck.
2006-11-29 04:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by dreamdewberrys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to feel confident about yourself, then you need to realize you aren't the only one who has experienced this same thing, and last but not least to really understand why this happens you need to read " Men Are From Mar's and Women Are From Venus ".
2006-11-29 04:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your like me? You have had you heart stepped on a few times to many. It causes trust issues. Trust is something you earn and when it's broken it's hard to get it back and even harder to do again.
2006-11-29 04:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IZ A TOUGH ONE,ONCE IT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU ITS HARD TO TRUST AGAIN,I WISH I HAD AN ANSWER FOR YOU HONEY,BUT I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM AS YOU,ESPECIALLY WHEN A GOOD PERCENTAGE OF GUYS DO CHEAT,IT REALLY SUCKS TO HAVE TO FEEL THAT WAY.I HOPE YOU FIND AN ANSWER BABYGIRL.
2006-11-29 04:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to work on your trust issues! Maybe you do have a good guy and don't lose him because of that.
2006-11-29 04:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to trust.
2006-11-29 04:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋