Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

My ex-girlfriend and I had a very bad break up! We were together for 9years, and had two beautiful girls. I was always there for my kids giving them whatever they wanted, spending time with them, and never missing a day telling them I love them! My ex is a very materialistic person! She loves the expensive cars and things the average person can't buy. She works at a convience store for the past 11years, and at 29 still lives with her mom in a run down trailor, but she drives a $32,000 '06 nissan altima 3.5! I'm orderd to pay her $937 a month, and never got a chance to say a word in court! I have visitation every other weekend, but she rarely even lets me see them then. She even took my name off the books at thier school so I can't see them because she hates me so much. She blows every dime of the money I give her, and my kids walk around looking very nasty! I simply can't understand why the system sees every man as a bad father, and would let her get away with this! Can anyone help me?

2006-11-28 20:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by babyshaq99 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not a question I know but I havent had any compliments for a while and im starting to miss them!

2006-11-28 20:50:54 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i respect him but he deceived. he has realised but not said anything to me. i want o do somthing which makes me more respectable & a good human being.

2006-11-28 20:47:39 · 13 answers · asked by vpvp 1 in Friends

if u gals hv them then try me out

2006-11-28 20:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by john 1 in Singles & Dating

well i just need a friend who will be bestfreind that will accept me as iam.....and if it is you just email at:
lj3_26_89@yahoo.com.ph

2006-11-28 20:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by grace 1 in Friends

i just found out that the girl im getting married to in 2 weeks time is a porn actress. She lied to me that her rich dad gives her money for living, after 6 months of relationship, when we just about to getting married she telling me that she is bound in a 6 month contract with this web based porn-site where she has to make one 30min video every 2 weeks. I am so lost i dnt knw what to do.

2006-11-28 20:46:24 · 31 answers · asked by billy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife have been fighting alot lately usually with me going to jail at the end of it all. I love my wife I just get irritated with her and cant control myself. If I go back to jail it could be prison. So now that my wife knows that she throws things and tries to hit me...Should I call 911 on her to defend myself if she goes on her temper rage?

2006-11-28 20:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cousin have some childesh look on her face every one treat her like a baby every one gives her time ... while no one even want to spend time with maybe just because i am some foolish kind but still ... my cousin is proud nd says that her cousins are jeolous with her ...

2006-11-28 20:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by larisa101 3 in Family

Very atentive tmy needs in begining. That didnt last. He drives truck.once when i got into his truck,i was shocked by the amount of xxx i found. dvd,vhs mags. all of it. He is a local driver. should be home every night. not always the case.

NEVER have i given him a reason for turning to porn. I have always been ready/willing &able.
But Its to the point that i have quit trying to initiate any conact at all. I have been rejected so very many times, i cant even count.

Found po box he was mail ordering xxx dvd&mags. while acting to me as if he had no interest in sex. Seems he has lots of interest. however it dosnt involve me.... at 40 im not ready to say that no more sex s ok.

Is this an addicton?
IS THERE ANY HOPE ofthings geting better?

any suggetions or advice please??

2006-11-28 20:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by Mikez Bad Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband once told me that if I would ever cheat on him he would leave and take our two kids with him, and that he would get full custody.
Not that I'm planning on cheating, but it doesn't seem logical that courts would grant one parent full custody of the children if the other parent caused the breakdown of the marriage by infidelity.
Why would cheating on my husband mean that I would be a bad parent to my kids? Can the courts really take away kids for that reason? Or was my husband just trying to scare me?

2006-11-28 20:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Delfina D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 20:33:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM 36 YRS OLD AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE COMPLETELY FAILED AT EVERYTHING IN LIFE. I HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL BOYS, THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD BE ENOUGH FOR ME TO FEEL GOOD. I HAVE HAD NUMEROUS FAILED RELATIONSHIPS, MOST OF THEM ABUSIVE. WHY CANT I FIND HAPPINESS IN MYSELF? I FEEL LIKE I HAVE GIVEN UP IN LIFE, AND I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD. I KNOW PEOPLE SAY GOD IS THE ANSWER BUT I DONT FEEL THAT IT IS. I FEEL THAT MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE MADE ME COLD BITTER AND HATEFUL PERSON. IVE BEEN TOLD I WILL DIE A LONELY OLD WOMAN, AND THAT SCARES ME SO MUCH. IM TIRED OF BEING ALONE IN LIFE. EVEN WITH MY KIDS I FEEL ALONE, I DONT HAVE ANYBODY IN THIS WORLD BUT MYSELF. MY KIDS ARE GOING TO GROW UP AND MOVE OUT AND MARRY SOMEDAY AND HAVE A FAMILY OF THEIR OWN. I KNOW SOMEONE ELSE CANT MAKE ME HAPPY I HAVE TO FIND IT INSIDE, BUT I SEE NONE. ALL I SEE IS SADINESS, LONLINESS AND CONFUSION. AND I FEEL IM GOING TO PASS THIS ON TO MY CHILDREN AND THATS THE LAST THING I WANT TO DO, BUT DONT WE

2006-11-28 20:32:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I cant seem to find someone to love me. Maybe if I know what men really want in woman I could find someone........

Yea I'm kinda desperate........lol

2006-11-28 20:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by oli4p 2 in Singles & Dating

told my mum and my dad when i started going out with my boyfriend but he wont tell hes family he just tells them im a friend

2006-11-28 20:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 20:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by vishal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A year ago, I discovered that my boyfriend cheated me. Upon discovering that he had a fling, I made him choose between me and the girl. He chose me because he realized that he loves me so much and that he even claimed that he was an idiot for hurting me so bad. At present, I am informed by the girl that they no longer communicate to each other and that my boyfriend says that he doesn't care about her anymore. Am I right for even asking whether the girl is happy now because I only want to have a peace of mind? My boyfriend and I are getting married this coming December. We both agreed with my father. Can my broken up trust to him be 100% again?

2006-11-28 20:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by vanderlitt v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 20:27:58 · 21 answers · asked by Konstantia T 1 in Singles & Dating

They cheat on their wives ( dont lie a$$holes!)

Don't pay child support or try to evade it.

Insult their wives with abusive verbal language and use their hands to communicate their anger.

Insult other nationalities such as (Arabs) for not being fair with women but in fact do not look at themselves.

Greedy

2006-11-28 20:27:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 20:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by sk97us 2 in Singles & Dating

7th-9th graders if you tell them don't they do..you tell them to do they don't why don't they listen?

2006-11-28 20:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've met a guy on-line a bit more than a month ago. He lives in another country and we can't visit each other now. At first he told me many gentle words but then when he noticed that I started to think of hi all the time he told me not to be addicted to him so much, we are far and we'll see what will happen but let's just enjoy chatting now. I asked him if he likes me and he told that yes. Well, he always asks for my pics. We talk a lot and he's almost the only person I feel interesting to talk to. He influences me very good, he makes me study, makes me want to look beautiful... But he stopped telling me "dear", "sweetie" and things like that that he told in the begging. Instead I like him even deeper as the days go by. I really want to be with him but he tells we'll see... And he always listens to my troubles and always tries to help and he tells we are. Tell me what do you think of this and what can I do for him to like me. Maybe he still can like me...
Thank you,
Maria

2006-11-28 20:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Singles & Dating

if you have known a guy for a while, and he has been chasing you for a while, and he asks you would you sleep with him, is that his way of saying that he likes you or does he just want some?lol

i have only kissed this guy despite staying over his place 4 times.i aint done "anything" else with this guy, despite him wanting a little more than just a kiss.yet he still wants to see me.

2006-11-28 20:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Usually me and my best friend see a guy and one of us will call dibs to try for him. But lately we both have a crush on this guy names Brett. well brett and i have already f*cked and everythings cool with us. I didn't think my friend would interfier after i told her about that, espically since she had a bf and now her bf and her have broken up and she's been hanging out with brett a lot. i'm not sure what i should do..i told her i liked him and i wanted to try (called dibs) but she's still putting the moves on him RIGHT IN FROM OF ME! i dont know what to do and i'm a bit confused as to why she's doing it.

2006-11-28 20:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by truepoisonwontkill 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend Myrina has been mad at me ever since I told her that im pregnant...I dont know why, but Im feeling sad about it cause ive known her since nappy days.
Myrina has stoped talking to me - emailing me - calling me - when I see her around she ignores me completely - WTH IS WRONG?

--- Yahmina Hyacinth

2006-11-28 20:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Friends

thats why nice, sweet, caring, innocent guys always finish last, because girls always date the jerks & yet they always complain "my ex was a jerk to me", or "oh he cheated on me" or they are like "why can't I find a nice, sweet guy", they say they hate jerks, but look at who they are going out with, I'm a nice guy, at least I consider myself one, I never make fun of people, I don't like to fight people, I've only been in one physical fight my whole life, & I got beat because I didn't wanna get involved in the first place, I believe fighting is always the last answer to a problem, I'm a gentle person, man, why can't girls open their eyes more clear?, why do they fail to notice us nice guys?

2006-11-28 20:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 4 yrs. and have two boys. We have always gotten along as friends. She says that there is something that is "just not there". I love her so much and have struggled with some personal issues in the past. She tells me that "she does not see me like that". I assume she means as a lover. She doesn't work at all. I work two jobs and am a good provider for our family, but that means that other areas are neglected (including her). Now that I kinda woke up and realized how I have done many things wrong, I fear it's too late. I can see how she would be hurt by my actions in the past, but I don't want to just give up now. I don't want to divorce her. I want to be the man to make her happy. I am trying to be optimistic about our future, but she is extremely pessimistic about it. She thinks that we should just click automatically. She says that I'm a good husband (now) but she doesn't think she wants to be with me forever. I am desperate for some direction!

2006-11-28 20:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by cohrsman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey? there's this girl i've known since i was 5 i really love her with all my heart now that i'm 20 but i don't dare tell her cuz i don't want to mess the strong bond between us I've tried so hard to find out how she thinks of me but couldn't. What u guys think is my feeling merely becuz i've known her for so long?

2006-11-28 20:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by Pooyi 1 in Singles & Dating

When does 'flirting' cross the line to 'cheating', or is there such a thing?

2006-11-28 20:13:30 · 17 answers · asked by argamedius 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so he says wsup to me everyday "fools around" with me in language arts and became a good guy friend. popular football player at school. someone found out i like him and started rumors that killed our friendship suddenly. he didnt talk to me for a week, stares at me when im not looking, tries to casually get my attention in class(like, walk by me on purpose), and goes to his locker just so he can see me after school. and usually, when we were friends, he never went to his locker. i may have gotten myself a stalker lol [[:

but seriously what happened??
does he like me too?

2006-11-28 20:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Singles & Dating

if love hurts and somebody refuses to let themselves get hurt, does that mean said person refuses to love aswell?

2006-11-28 20:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships