My friend Myrina has been mad at me ever since I told her that im pregnant...I dont know why, but Im feeling sad about it cause ive known her since nappy days.
Myrina has stoped talking to me - emailing me - calling me - when I see her around she ignores me completely - WTH IS WRONG?
--- Yahmina Hyacinth
2006-11-28 20:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw -Like I said - I CANT get hold of her- at all - even if I go to her house and kindly ask her mother - the answer I get is Myrina coming downstairs slamming the door and yelling "sl*ut!"
2006-11-28 21:11:13 · update #1
First of all, if she's acting like that its probably time to forget about her. You don't deserve that behavior from her.
Maybe she has always had high hopes for your future and her own future. Maybe she thought you'd both go to college together? Maybe she really disapproves of people getting pregnant young and single, and she could be too immature to know how not to express her disappointment about it. She's probably feeling a little abandoned by you as well.
Some people do feel very strongly that bringing a baby into the world to a very young and unmarried mother isn't fair to the baby. Maybe Myrina thinks you're doing a disservice to a baby.
It isn't her place to have an opinion about what you do, even if she, personally, thinks its a mistake. Leave her alone for a while. Maybe she'll get over whatever her problem is and apologize. Other than that, don't beg and plead and keep trying. If she doesn't like that you're pregnant she can (as my mother used to say) "lump it".
Really - everything else aside - you shouldn't put up with being called a "****". That's just abusive of her, and she has no right to behave that way toward you.
2006-11-28 22:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops, looks like she may be jealous. Did you have some plans to do things together, and she could feel excluded now you're pregnant?
Did she know that you were planning this, and feels left out?
It would be sad if you let this situation get out of hand, and lost your friendship as a result.
Get hold of her,and try to sort it out.
2006-11-28 21:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sally E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can all guess. The only important answer will come from Myrina....ask her.
2006-11-28 20:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by artistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'd much faith in you...and it hurts her that it just shattered...better make things up with her...just do the first move and no backing off...talk to her...talk about your feelings...just be honest and rest assured you'll have her back again....
2006-11-28 20:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by krung2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'a jealous that you're having a baby and how pretty you are
2006-11-28 20:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron m420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just talk to her about why she ismad!
2006-11-28 21:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by kamdens mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is jealous about you
2006-11-28 20:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by yin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋