2006-11-28 20:27:58 · 21 answers · asked by Konstantia T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.Be yourself. Have fun. Take the good you get and enjoy it. Don't worry about tommorow. Let the other person make the first move. And the last move. A good relationship, friendship, whatever. If you both want to be serious, good! If not be friends! Be happy with yourself first! Love yourself, take care of yourself. And someone will love you much more seriously.
Everybody is normal till you get to know them :)
2006-11-28 20:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one! im in the same situation or i was at least until recently. my ex treated me like i was nothing basically but he was very clever playing the guilt trip all the time so that i stayed with him. anyway....when i finally woke up and finished things with him i had no confidence when i started dating other guys. i thought they were all going to do the same things that he did so none of them lasted very long. i obviously wasnt in the right frame of mind to be in a relationship so i took some time out to kind of get to know myself again and build my confidence back up and just spend some time that was all about me and nobody else!! this really helped me to move on from him and i am now in a really great relationship. So my advice would be to take some time for yourself and you will find that over time...probably when your not expecting it you will meet someone and wont even give your ex a 2nd thought! it does take time but there is no point in going into another relationship while you still feel like you do.
2006-11-28 20:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Burn his pictures and letters, delete his numbers in your phonebook, refrain from listening to loves songs that could let you remember him, get up and groom yourself for parties out there with friends.... if it still doesn't work, go straightforward to him and hold your fists tight.... what's next? Make a big big big blow on his face... After that, climb for the highest mountain you can climb, or at any top most part of your place and shout to the world that HE IS THE EVER UGLIEST CREATURE YOU HAVE EVER SEEN IN THE UNIVERSE!!!!!!!!
2006-11-28 20:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by vanderlitt v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer and tho it's an old cliche, it is true. In years to come you'll look back and wonder what on earth you ever saw in him. Try and keep busy, meet new people, have new experiences and the memories will soon fade.
2006-11-28 20:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by katieplatie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont what ever you do jump straight into another relationship - this will damage you even further!
A couple of years ago i got out of a really bad relationship where my boyfriend made me feel like a worthless piece of crap and i acted like a doormat.
I promised myself that i wouldnt go near another man until i felt good enough in myself to not be a doormat anymore - i was single for a year and then met the love of my life who treats me like a princess !
Good luck and remember it was his problem not yours and you arent a bad person for someone to treat you like this.
2006-11-28 20:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes tyme to heal, but not eternity, move on with life, dont dwell too much on the past, focus on ur present life and the future.
someday u gonna meet someone new.
smile at the world and the world will smile back at you.
2006-11-28 20:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Essie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals and in this case it's true...Now is the time to do things for you, to do things that you always wanted to do and just base everything on yourself....It will hurt for awhile and people that say it dosen't are full of it....Keep your chin up and know things will get better...best of luck to you
2006-11-28 20:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by -- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out, breaking the routine, lots of exercises, help from friends & family.
Take care
2006-11-28 20:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me, he in straight forward words needs you round for "different" causes immediately until eventually he famous somebody else to fill his "needs". purely went with the help of an same ingredient...stay away from the heartbrake and RUN!!! believe me, you're better ideal off w/o him and he doesn't truly favor to be with you if he's already dumped you two times. discover somebody else that benefits to be with you!
2016-10-07 22:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I'd already be over him if he did that to me.... just spend some time thinking of the BAD times... instead of the good times.... and go and have fun until you wanna settle down a bit again..
2006-11-28 20:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Bmp1ksh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋