I'm in graduate school in a grueling program that leaves very little time for things like dating and relationships. I'm career oriented. I have a friend, a guy in my field with similar aspirations and committment to school. He's career oriented too. We both put that aspect of our life ahead of romance. I've come to realize that I have a deep respect, admiration, and attraction to him. We've shared a couple of "moments", not physical ones. I don't know how to interpret that. We are collegues and share friends, including a mutual "bestfriend", and interact with each other on a daily basis. At times I feel confident in our friendship, at others, I feel that he avoids talking to me, specifically, he avoids looking at or responding directly to me. No one would know we were friends. This makes me selfconscious and jealous of people with whom he does not do this. I want my friend back. Do I tell him how I feel, if only to clear the air? I want a good friendship more than love
2006-11-28
22:14:02
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