We are together over a year and have a nice wkend planned, and also a holiday planned for February. I miss him so much when we are not together. I know this relationship is right for me and I hope he feels the same way.He told me he loved me a few wks ago.I want to know if he wants to marry me and have kids, and I don't want to ask straight out as I feel it is better if he asked me to marry me sometime. I just want to hint a bit to him, so he knows I am interested in this.How can I do this?
2006-11-28 22:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he said he would tell Pammy Anderson he had a girlfriend if she ever tried it on with him!!!
2006-11-28 22:30:13 · update #1
Start leaving those Bride Magazines laying around.
Seriously, if you want a relationship that lasts, you need to start communicating, and never stop.
Ask him if he likes kids, and if he ever thought about having one someday. (Start with one, you don't want to scare him off!)
2006-11-28 22:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by John H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, commitment is a huge thing. You can love someone very much and hope to have a marital future with that person but it does not always happen like a fairy tail. If this is true love it will be there now and forever and all that you have hoped for will happen. But if it is not and you rush into being a family. Your children will be the ones that suffer. Take time. Let love just happen.
2006-11-28 22:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gentle Giant Canines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about marriage, just not about the two of you. Discuss your views of what should happen on your special day. Tell him about your best experience with a friend or family member getting married. Don't do it just once. Make it a frequent topic. When the two of you see children (at the store, at the movies, in a restaurant, the playground, wherever) mention to him how adorable they are, and mention how you want some of your own. Tell him about wedding rings you think look nice. Tell him about your views on rings, for example "My friend has this enormous ring. I think it's too big." Or, "My friend and her fiance decided the ring wasn't important right now, so they got zirconium. I think that is ______"
To summarize, discuss it, just don't discuss it about the two of you.
2006-11-28 22:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see a baby when your out & about with him or on the tv, say "awwwww how cuuutee!" & see what his reaction is. It'll probably be either agreement, or panic on his face lol.
That will let him know you are broody too.
If he doesn't look too distressed, you could always ask "would you like to have kids one day?" in a non-intense, relaxed kinda way but dont say "would you like US to have kids one day" or he may stress out.
If he only just told you he loves you a few weeks ago, then slow it down! being in love with someone for only a few weeks before discussing children really isn't long enough.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 22:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cori 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you insane or having love sick? Supposely man will ask lady to marry him and not vice versa. Why are you making yourself so desperate and hoping he will quickly marry you and have babies together? Did he feel the same excitement as you are right now?
Are you really that desperate that in this world no other guys can provide you happiness except your current bf? I think you are very simple girl who is living in your own wonderful world and nothing would make you content and satisfy except become someone's wife and having babies.
2006-11-29 00:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good solid relationship then you shouldn't have to hint about anything. Hinting is the worst form of communication.
If you can't talk about it, you aren't ready for it. Nothing wrong with the woman bringing up the subject.
2006-11-28 22:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him casually that if u marry someday u would want a person like him..I think he will get the hint.
2006-11-28 22:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he sees himself in the future. What his plans are for the future.
2006-11-28 22:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the form of subtle language, 'you heard about the biological time clocks of women?'
2006-11-28 22:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you clock is ticking!!
2006-11-28 22:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by bigmum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋