phone messages which he says he does not recognise the sender.
2006-11-28 22:01:24 · 10 answers · asked by kamulumulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take his phone and mob bills and check it which numbers continuously he speaking and what times for who's number he not recognize same number is there or not. keep watching because mob cent re them self giving so many option to flerting with girsl.i catch my husband with same way.
2006-11-28 22:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you find "proof" that your husband is cheating the last thing you want to do is confront him with it until you're absolutely sure. If you do confront him with weak "proof" of an affair all you'll be doing is giving him the opportunity to lie and be more careful not to leave that type of evidence again. The best thing you can do is wait until you're more sure....and he's bound to slip up some time. Then when you finally decide to confront him make sure you do it at the right time. I know it might be hard to hold it in but wait until you both have time to talk....maybe in the evening. And don't let him know in advance that you want to have a talk. That will make him suspicious and give him time to come up with a lie. When people know in advance that they have to lie to someone it makes it harder to tell that they're lying. But you can look for signs like too much or too little eye contact, unnatural pauses when he talks, moving on the chair before starting a sentence. But no matter what.....go with your guts. There's never smoke without a fire. Trust yourself. I hope this helps you a bit.
2016-05-23 01:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call the number and ask her....
Let me put it this way no way is he going to tell you the truth not if he thinks he can lie and get away with it....
She might lie also and she might not just be nice to her say something like these messages are on my mans phone he denies he knows you his name is can you please tell me the truth as a woman you would want to know wouldn't you?
That's what I'd do. Or follow his but hire an investigator or ask his best friend and see if he squirms.
2006-11-28 22:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what kind of relationship you have as husband and wife. I have a "best friend" kind of relationship with my husband. So, when he denies things I accuse or ask him of, I leave it at that. I don't think it's healthy to look for proofs of his infidelity (unless I want to get out of the relationship). The stress will only take a toll on my health and my looks. I always think that it's going to be my husband's loss, not mine.
2006-11-28 22:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepts what your husband tells you, do not try to investigate him. Discard the proof that you have and start showing him more love, if he was cheating or about to, he will change. Do not worry yourself, what you dont know should not hurt you. Your Husband is yours dont send him out.
2006-11-28 22:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by wilson_ugbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess if you really think something is going on. the next time a call comes in get the number and call it. just be careful you might not like what you hear.
2006-11-28 22:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get a chance, take the phone and reply back, with a generic question, then wait for a response.
2006-11-28 22:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him until he gives you a good reason to believe that he is cheating
2006-11-28 23:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust......there is no us.
If you cant trust him, leave him.
2006-11-28 22:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Brian M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him u should of sooner!!
2006-11-28 22:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by bigmum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋