Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Miss X & Mr Y were married 6 months ago -an arranged marriage. She has lived & worked in USA (green card) the past 3 years. (with her mom & dad & younger sister.) Husband is a perpetual student... living on another continent to complete his advanced degree. He is supported by his parents and a loan from the bank for his schooling. He married her, expecting to get a rich wife. (she has a good job) Her husband is furious because he found out that she has no savings.. having given her paychecks to her parents since she lives with them & her education was paid for by them. He thought she would pay off his school debt. The only property they have in common is his computer, cell phone, and a camera. He hopes to live in USA, continue studies, and be supported by wife. Should she keep her paycheck for this guy? She does not mind giving to mom & dad. Mom & dad told her to do as she wishes. Whose money is her paycheck. (legally): she is now married but not financially supported by husband.

2006-11-28 19:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by carmen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

seriously, why do us guys have to be the ones to start a conversation, keep up the conversation, flirt & ask them out?, why can't girls do it more often?, well I'm 18, gonna be 19 in a month, & I'm still virgin & haven't had a girlfriend, been out on a date or a one-night stand, I know that girls make the first move sometimes, but they never make the first move on me, I'm a shy person, but that doesn't mean I never approach girls, I usually approach them when they are alone, I'm not comfortable approaching them in front of people or if they are with their friends, plus I'm always scared of asking them for their number cause I don't wanna get a fake one or a made-up excuse that they can't give it out, which is obviously a rejection. Sometimes I wish it was a girl cause it seems more easy for them, cause in my opinion, if a good looking boy is shy or won't make the first move, he won't get girls, but if a good looking girl is shy, she willl still get a lot of boys

2006-11-28 19:41:08 · 20 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:39:59 · 26 answers · asked by rizaplanco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just returned from England to my native country South Africa after 4 years. Don't get me wrong - I love my family and I live in one of the most beautiful countries in the world, but I'm feeling alone, and miss my live in England. Nobody seems to understand this....

2006-11-28 19:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 19:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sorry :( long story. My bf was known as being a player and only keeping relationships for 2 weeks. But then he met me, he couldnt get down my pants and he liked that. He was used to getting stuff though so at eight months i knew he was serious cause we didnt do anything. Problem is, I had trouble trusting him because he was a big flirt. We talked about everything so I told him and he said he was going to stop hugging and flirting with girls and he really did. It took him a little but he did, this was at our eight months. unfortunately though, we got tired of each other and he didnt know if he was ready for a serious relationship and I couldnt trust him and I couldnt speak his families language, russian, he broke up with me. A week after, he told me that he had oral sex and made out with two girls when he left to russia for a month. of course.. i asked him. so, three months passed, it was over the summer that we were broken up, and he left to russia again for a month. I was partying and

2006-11-28 19:38:33 · 2 answers · asked by bevv 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and this guy like each other, but he hasnt asked me out yet.
Wouldnt he do it if he really really liked me.. i mean the fear of rejection is gone...
and we already go out places so...
And if i DID ask him out... would i say "will you be my bf?" or woudl that scare a guy?

2006-11-28 19:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by sk97us 2 in Singles & Dating

(Please excuse the odd phrasing. I didn’t want anyone to be effected by who the guy is & who the girl is.)

We live on a 5 acre lot. The house is on the higher level & a comfortable little trailer house in on the lower level by the lake.

The internet surfer is glued to the computer in the bedroom. The couch potato is glued to the TV in the Living room. The couch potato gets up, leaves the house to go down to the trailer without telling the internet surfer.

The surfer goes to the living room to say “Lets go to bed.” No one is there, then knowing the couch potato is probably down at the trailer, surfer calls registering a complaint about not telling surfer that potato was leaving house.

Couch potato was asleep & says “I’ll come on up.” No Show (potato falls back asleep). 15 minutes later, same call, same result. The 30 minutes later same call, same result, then 15 minutes more later. Each time the surfer complains of feeling rejected.

2006-11-28 19:37:28 · 10 answers · asked by leopardlady 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Just started working and was worried about keeping my morals...I know it's not stripping but I don't want to be looked down on.

2006-11-28 19:34:00 · 8 answers · asked by BondGirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

most guys no that your not fooling anybody cause we are doing it behind your back as well

2006-11-28 19:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it a good idea to move in with a boyfriend before marriage? - a question in general-

2006-11-28 19:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am right now 18 and look like 15 may be my face is kiddish

2006-11-28 19:32:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by anna 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by heart o' gold 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:30:27 · 5 answers · asked by kelkel 1 in Family

I just wonder if you all think that guys are only nice to the ones they are chasing...

2006-11-28 19:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I've been with my lady for a while now and sometimes things get a bit mundane- ie going to work, coming home, sleeping! We don't have much money so we can't afford to spend our nights at the cinema or eating out etc. I just wondered what cheap/free ideas you guys have as to how to make our lives more interesting?

2006-11-28 19:26:02 · 28 answers · asked by Christian S 2 in Singles & Dating

Seen people use this to track their old school mates so I thought I'd ask and see if anyone knows my old mate David Irvine. Last I knew he was still in Erdington, Birmingham, he will be 24/25 now, had browny blonde hair, tall (well taller than me and I'm 5'11).

We went to St Margaret Marys primary school and St Edmund campion RC secondary school together

2006-11-28 19:25:54 · 2 answers · asked by scott e 1 in Friends

I am going to be get married.....it's an arrange marrige.....so I don't know how should I start. He always gives a lot of instructions to me. I am trying my best to change myself but I feel he is not happy. What should i do?

2006-11-28 19:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was just told some really horrible things from a really close friend and ive been crying for the last hour...someone please say ANYTHING to cheer me up so i can get some sleep...

thank you sooo much...

2006-11-28 19:24:35 · 30 answers · asked by kimberbee 5 in Friends

she broke up with her boyfriend a few days ago.. i have like this girl for 6 mths now but havent tell her that i like her.. is now the right time?

I'm not sure if the guy still have any feelings for her though..

2006-11-28 19:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by cretined07 1 in Singles & Dating

if the guy has a great personality, is fun, etc...?

2006-11-28 19:22:23 · 21 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by glee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about the really out their nerds who live in their own world, I'm talking about guys who have somewhat more academic interests, are gamers, enjoy D&D, etc...

2006-11-28 19:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, this is Clay (Jeunguk) Hall from southern California. I recently discovered a question here, and received an email indicating that someone might be looking for me?, possibly an old friend from Korea? If this is you, please email me at, hall_clayton@hotmail.com. But you must use a standard return email address like yahoo, or hotmail, as I was unable to reply to the last email. Well, I hope whoever you are we are able to make contact! Thanks!

2006-11-28 19:18:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jeunguk Clay 1 in Friends

what is the best way to express ur luv for ur lover?

2006-11-28 19:18:22 · 12 answers · asked by My_Life 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 19:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by Alex N 3 in Singles & Dating

no sex involved, although we share a room. but i can't get rid of him from my mind and my heart, is it love?. Being married for near 13 yrs and my hubby is a good person. Feel very guilty, but can't do anything. 24 seven thought about him, i know we're just a friend.

2006-11-28 19:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by OOPS I DID IT AGAIN! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal. My girl ( Jen )and I dated for 6 to 7 mounths we split up for about 3 mounths. But over those 3 mounths we still had sex. ( F.W.B). We also saw other people, but we both still loved each other and we got back together a mounth ago. but at that point I still was not shore what I wanted. When we were split up I started seeing anouther girl. ( lauren ) So for about a mounth I was seeing them both. I did not know who I wanted to be with. Jen found out Befor I could talk to her about it. Now I dont know if we will stay together, I love jen and want to spend my life with her. I ended it with Lauren so I could be with just jen. l know now Jen is the one I want to be with. We Are trying to work thangs out she said we are just going to have to take it 1 day at a time. But she Is spending alot of time with her guy friend Thay go out. Thay talk on the phone 3or4 times a day I know the guy likes her. he spends the night over there sometimes. she said there just friends? help me

2006-11-28 19:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by love sick 1 in Singles & Dating