If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her. But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend. Even if she thinks she is. But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
2006-11-28 19:31:15
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answered by The First Dragon 7
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Personally, it's the making of a girl on the rebound.
I suppose it varies, depending on the familiarity between you and the girl. If things were a bit different and the two of you were childhood friends, I guess she'll be able to confide in you to give her support for her time of need. But to confess to her when she's at her utmost vulnerable time would make her think that you're taking advantage of her. Give it some time, and certain distractions may help forget about that ugly breakup. Eventually, if you can prove that you and her are a much better fit, then she'll go for it. Just make sure that you're not like 'all the other guys' who broke her heart.
2006-11-28 19:32:14
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answered by once_a_nerd 2
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Well, you need to take into consideration that IF her relationship is truly over, then there is that possibility that she will be in a 'vulnerable', emotional state.
Your presence would be a 'convenient' way to fill that 'temporary void' in her life, after a 'break up', however, I think by remaining 'friends' with this girl might be a possibility. This means ONLY being friends with her, because if anything, that is what she would need more of, and not another relationship.
If you've observed the 'ex-boyfriend' and have a feeling that he may still have 'feelings' for her, then maybe it's best to keep your distance, in case there is a conflict in how he may perceive it. He may take it the wrong way, and Lord knows, you don't want to rattle any cages, in case they just need some time apart, and may get back together, again.
On the other hand, expressing that you are concerned for her well-being and are there to listen to her, and be her friend, may be somewhat comforting for her, but don't let that fool you.
A female in need, is trouble indeed, especially if she's just broken up with her boyfriend, and may need a shoulder to cry on...but that may only be temporary, until she gets her wits about her, and discovers that her 'needs' are only to be met, at her convenience, and may steer in the wrong direction, later on, after she 'gets over her break up'.
Just be careful, though, young man. You don't want to fall for this girl, just to end up in the same situation as she has - with a broken heart....
2006-11-28 19:34:14
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answered by argamedius 3
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I think you should tell her. Maybe she liked you too or she'll grow to like you. But first, give her time to get over the old bf. You dont want to rush into anything with a girl who just broke up with her bf. Becuz if you dont give her time, she wont fully commit to you if you guys ever get together. Trust me on this. Just give her a few weeks or months becuz they might get back together later on.
2006-11-28 19:50:22
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answered by chika0284 2
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ok i understand where u r coming from bc i had a guy break up with me so he could be with some other girl then come back and it was hard to say no bc i still loved him but u need to get him out of your life! it will hurt for a few months but when u let him go then u can find a guy who will treat you right and you wont ever think of him again like that
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think it is the right moment for you to express your feeling to her at this moment. You need to give her sometime to get over the failed relationship before you tell her about how your feeling towards her. Bear in mind that she might not be able to accept you intially so let her have sometime to understand you before she can accept you as her bf
2006-11-28 21:59:32
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answered by Clown & Joker 5
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You can confess to her that you like her but now is not the right time to do so....Give her some time to get over her ex bf and just be friends with her for now. You wouldn't want her to rebounce on you now....
2006-11-28 19:34:58
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answered by uniqaznmeg 3
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giver her sometime to sort her thoughts out. Or if u wan, u can help her out by asking the reason of breaking.. who knows the reason is u.. ahaha.. all the best.
2006-11-28 19:54:12
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answered by Its me! 3
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I had a guy do that to me...Don't do it...It will make her very uncomfortable.
Just take it easy, Wait a little while...then flirt with her a little to see what happens..
2006-11-28 19:37:24
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answered by †ᴰᴲᵛᴵᴸ† 5
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give her some time to get over him first
2006-11-28 19:26:54
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answered by abc 2
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