I just returned from England to my native country South Africa after 4 years. Don't get me wrong - I love my family and I live in one of the most beautiful countries in the world, but I'm feeling alone, and miss my live in England. Nobody seems to understand this....
2006-11-28 19:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you are not livng the way you want to. lonliness comes from not having the people you want around you and not participating in activities you love. if you love england...... go back there. it is your life so you better make it good for you not everybody else.
2006-11-28 19:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by L.J. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is natural thing to happen. When ever we change a place we do miss it for sometime. Soon you will start liking South Africa.......it is just temporary problem. After few years you will not want to go back to England. You just have to wait and give yourself some time. 4 years you were in England.......wait more 4 years and see how your opinion will change. Any Place where you are with your family is the best place/
2006-11-28 19:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was like this when I went home to my native country of England from Australia this year. It's because your heart is in England. It doesn't matter who is around you or what you are doing, if your heart is in a different place, it doesnt matter. I truly believe in the saying 'Home is where the Heart is'. The only cure is to go back or if not possible, to try and 'detach' your heart from England. My heart is in Australia - i'm now back and am truly happy and content, I wish you the same. Good Luck : )
2006-11-28 19:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand. With my mom's side of the family, I feel happy and loved, but with my dad's side of the family, I tend to feel left out. It's the same when I'm out in big groups. I think for you, a big part of it is because your family members weren't there during your experiences in England. It's like you went on an epic adventure and they stayed home. A lot of things you did and saw that are important memories and experiences for you, they aren't included in. So maybe it feels like, "how can they really know me?" Also, for me, I have the problem that I feel ignored. I feel like I have plenty of input, or like I'm a really interesting person, but it often feels like other people just don't care.
Perhaps it's a problem of separating different parts of our lives. Sorry I don't have any great advice, but I completely understand. Hope this helps a bit.
2006-11-28 19:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Willow Wisp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a feeling you can be the loneliest person in a crowded room. that feeling is the worst feeling in the world. you just arent content with yourself, go back to where you are happy. you cant live your life for your family because when they are gone whose going to make you happy and live for you? if your family loves you they will understand and let you be happy. life is too short to live unhappy.
2006-11-28 19:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there T my Love!!! we can usually experience that way expensive..those round us do not continuously imagine an same way we do...they're continuously complete of them self and do not take your time to imagine that purely perchance somebody else needs to carry close that you want them i favor to hearken to i love You from my relations and at cases ask your self in the journey that they truly do or is it very few ingredient they say because I say it to them!! i'd be in a room full of relations and acquaintances and for some reason experience like i'm the in straight forward words one there..Or that i'm the in straight forward words one which receives it!! yet then time is going through and that i save in thoughts why i love them so..once you get that feeling of being on my own you end and picture..Darn that wasn't truly all that undesirable!!..LOL
2016-10-07 22:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only find true happiness within yourself through a relationship with God. If you are feeling alone then you must not have God in your life. Don't depend on people to fullfill your life and don't sit around waiting for it to happen. Search for your own peace within your own heart.
2006-11-28 19:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by mamakerry13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some event come in front every one which not be sear in our family at this stage we fill alone thats human main weakness point
2006-11-28 19:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by naveen k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Sounds like you are nostalgic. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-28 19:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by desertskieswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no friends you probably dont have a woman and got nothing going in your life......I suggest its time to think about prostitution....its something different and meaningful you get your choice let your mate be refectful of your life......
answered by kast
2006-11-28 19:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋