someone PLEASE cheer me up...?

Question

i was just told some really horrible things from a really close friend and ive been crying for the last hour...someone please say ANYTHING to cheer me up so i can get some sleep...

thank you sooo much...

Answer 1

You seem like a really nice person. You're obviously sensitive and compassionate, both of which are becoming more and more rare these days. I'm sure you two will work it out soon. Sleep well!

Answer 2

Hi! You poor kid! Your close friend is probably having a bad day and had to take it out on someone.(usually the one they love the most) She knows where to stick the dagger in where it hurts the most on you. If she is just being nasty, then it's time to find a new best friend. You are most likely kind and sweet and hate to hurt others. If you weren't, then it wouldn't hurt so bad. Just remember that everything will get better and that bad times are the way we become stronger. Don't ever become bitter or you will only hurt yourself. Always use bad things to wake your senses and to define your choices to bring on better things. You grow as a human person when things get dark and sad. Always look at the good you can gain and your life will never be a complete dissapointment. Your friend might need some advice after this about being more kind in the future. Maybe she is hormonal and irrational right now. At least you are smart to ask for someone's help. It's always better to talk things out. I have been so hurt by my best friends at times, but I realize that no one is perfect, forgive and go on. The hurt is so deep! Right now I am praying for you and I hope all will get better. Good night sweet one.

Answer 3

Well, if they were telling you the truth and you did not know whatever it was, then be glad you have someone who cares enough to risk upsetting you, making you mad and possibly losing a friendship by helping you see what is fact or reality. No one can mirror themselves or see theirself as others see them, and when a person does tell you the truth about you use it wisely and grow from it or correct the issue. If it makes you mad then really take a good look at it, when people tell you things that upset you there is most likely some substance there.
On the other hand, I don't know what was said or by who, or what their intention may have been when they told you this that they likely knew was not great news to you. There are plenty of folks who will say things just to watch you get upset or mad, it feeds their craving to control others.
So whatever it was, or about, look at their motive for sharing the info, then look at whether what was said was true or even valid...possibly it was an opinion, gossip, and may well be no fact in it.
Whatever the case..try to think ahead in 10 years.....Will you even remember this?? Is it that huge on the scale of your life in the bigger picture??
Go to bed, thank God for all your blessings even when they seem few, & no matter what do not ever utter "it can't get any worse"...as it always can so don't tempt the real powers on this earth.
I used to make my younger brother put on a bra when I was sad, he isn't a fag but it is really hard not to laugh at it & looks stupid as hell. Or get the best prank caller you know on the phone and make them three-way stupid calls til you laugh.
Don't stay down about it, accept it, adjust to it, and know that anything that dosen't kill you just makes you stronger.

Answer 4

You're a beautiful person. You've lived through hard times, suffered loss, pain, betrayal, and yet you've come through it all. You've grown wiser, and stronger, with each challenge and tribulation that life has thrown at you. You've been loved, you've affected the lives of people close to you, you've changed them forever. If you hadn't been born, many wonderful things would have been lost to this world. You've made people smile, and laugh, and see themselves in a better light. You're valuable in so many ways, and although sometimes things are dark, and sometimes people are cruel, there will always be another bright horizon ahead somewhere. There will always be a sunrise. The tears you shed now will fall to the earth and nourish the seeds of your future ability to reach out and touch others. I know it hurts. I know it's terrible sometimes. But I have good news for you: You can handle it. You're a remarkable human being, and nothing should ever make you forget that.

This too shall pass. Take a deep breath and let a little smile rise on your lovely face. It's okay. It won't invalidate your pain, I promise.

I'm rooting for you.

Answer 5

There's always two sides to a coin. Believe me , you have the ability to choose to either be affected by the horrible things or turn it around to make you a stronger and better person. Darling, don't ever let anything or anyone make you unhappy. Just tell yourself that after a good sleep , the sun will rise bright and shinning tomorrow and it will be a brand new day and everything is brand new too . CHEERS !!!

Answer 6

Aussie Humor

A bloke from Australia's outback was visiting in Sydney when he saw an ad for a restaurant that read: "Happy Hour Special: Lobster Tail & Beer."


"Oy!" said the Outbacker. "My three favorite things!"



At The Doctor's Office

An older man goes in for his yearly physical, with his wife tagging along.


When the doctor enters the examination room, he says, "I will need a urine sample, a stool sample, and a sperm sample."


The old man, being hard of hearing, turns to his wife and asks, "What did he say?"


The wife yells back to him, "GIVE HIM YOUR UNDERWEAR."

Answer 7

weeping may endure for a night but joy will come in the morning
a quotation from the bible, rest now and believe that in the morning things will look better from a diffrent perspective, I know you hurt for now, Just remember that your heart might hurt now but perhaps God has someone greater than that person lined up for your future, Hmmmm one never knows how God works, Proverbs says "trust in the Lord with all your heart and Soul and lean not on your own understanding, and in all your ways trust him and he will give you the desires of your heart, Now kimberly rest in him

Answer 8

First of all know that you are somebody and you are pretty damn special.you are a over comer and and nothing can defeat you but defeat if you allow it to.you are a conqueror in all things.so pick yourself up and dust yourself off and take on your next task.life is not all good it has its good points and it has its bad...but the finally out come is up to you.it is up to you to wholler in the news that you got or smile and say ok that's life and accept it as a weapon formed against you and press on to pick yourself up.Good luck!!!

Answer 9

Hi Sweetheart!! I am sorry you are feeling so down now,you didn't give much detail about what your friend said to get you so upset. but I'll tell ya what......I'll mention you in my prayers when I go to bed tonight!!

When I am feeling down and alone,I often talk to God in prayer. Only he can know exactly how you feel! And God loves you very much!! (..and if I got to know you....I bet I would like you a lot,too!!)

Pleasant Dreams my Dear!!

Answer 10

Take heart, you are the sweetest thing to have happened on earth, when the sun rises, it does it for you my dear. Ope you get some sleep pie.