Here's the deal. My girl ( Jen )and I dated for 6 to 7 mounths we split up for about 3 mounths. But over those 3 mounths we still had sex. ( F.W.B). We also saw other people, but we both still loved each other and we got back together a mounth ago. but at that point I still was not shore what I wanted. When we were split up I started seeing anouther girl. ( lauren ) So for about a mounth I was seeing them both. I did not know who I wanted to be with. Jen found out Befor I could talk to her about it. Now I dont know if we will stay together, I love jen and want to spend my life with her. I ended it with Lauren so I could be with just jen. l know now Jen is the one I want to be with. We Are trying to work thangs out she said we are just going to have to take it 1 day at a time. But she Is spending alot of time with her guy friend Thay go out. Thay talk on the phone 3or4 times a day I know the guy likes her. he spends the night over there sometimes. she said there just friends? help me
2006-11-28 19:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by love sick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are getting some of your own medicine there buddy. Why was it ok for you to be with both of them while you made up your mind, but not ok for her to be with both of you while she makes up her mind? You say I alot in that paragraph as though you have given up something you wanted, and the decision is soley yours if you spend your life with Jen. It's not. It's up to Jen too and since you started this, you kind of have to wait for her to figure it out the way you did.
I'm sorry you are hurting, but this is what you wanted, time to decide if she was the one. Now give her the same courtesy.
2006-11-28 19:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you be doing if a girl was spending the night at your house? Sounds like cheating to me. Oh, that's great that you ended things with Lauren to be with Jen but what were you going to do if she hadn't found out. You can't be too mad at Jen for following your lead.
2006-11-28 19:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by ricks.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were with two girls and were trying to make up your mind whether you wanted to be with Jen or Lauren. You have made your choice...JEN but may be your girl friend too needs to decide whether you are good enough for her or not ! Let her make her own choices the way you did. If she still loves you she will be back to you !
2006-11-28 19:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kinjal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my honest opinion is that you actually deserve this! she is giving you a taste of your own medicine and showing you how it feels to be cheated upon! so it is fair and this game is fair on both sides! you started it and she is ending it! why is it okay for a guy to two time or cheat but then if a girl does it oh my gosh! good lord, wake up and see that you started it and she is cheating on you! she has a reason more to add to her list and that is you since you wanted to have your cake and to eat it too just like any guy!there is nothing to do except apologize and give it time to regain trust in each other!plus Jen has to make up her own mind is she should be with you or go with another guy!
2006-11-28 19:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is not cheating on you since both of you are not together anymore...despite what you may want or think. Seems tome that since she told you to take it one day at a time, she is free to explore other options just as you were free. If you do end up loosing her, it seems to me that you re the only one to blame!
2006-11-28 19:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
video games boys play! you will desire to tell Stacy approximately it or help Mary spill the beans. tell Bob to bounce off a cliff. he's no longer sturdy for the two of them. If he has to make threats then he's no longer nicely worth being around. tell those women to stay removed from him. he appears like undesirable information!
2016-10-13 08:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she is doing the same thing to you. it's hard because how can you be mad with her? she will just tell you that you did it first. i suggest you think it over real good. then talk to her. your relationship has nowhere to go if you continue to do those things to each other.
to answer your question, yes i also think she is cheating on you.
2006-11-28 19:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure have take to her be four some one easy did and maybe that are just friend or maybe she is at the point to see who she wanted to be with
2006-11-28 19:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How stupid are you, Poindexter? When you kiss her, does her breath smell like a sweaty d ic k? I wonder why, dumb a ss.
2006-11-28 19:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she is doing the same thing you`ve done to her... think and talk to her without going out of your mind. most of the time it`s becuse of ourselves...
2006-11-28 19:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋