Do I tell him how I feel?

Question

I'm in graduate school in a grueling program that leaves very little time for things like dating and relationships. I'm career oriented. I have a friend, a guy in my field with similar aspirations and committment to school. He's career oriented too. We both put that aspect of our life ahead of romance. I've come to realize that I have a deep respect, admiration, and attraction to him. We've shared a couple of "moments", not physical ones. I don't know how to interpret that. We are collegues and share friends, including a mutual "bestfriend", and interact with each other on a daily basis. At times I feel confident in our friendship, at others, I feel that he avoids talking to me, specifically, he avoids looking at or responding directly to me. No one would know we were friends. This makes me selfconscious and jealous of people with whom he does not do this. I want my friend back. Do I tell him how I feel, if only to clear the air? I want a good friendship more than love

Answer 1

I strongly feel , if you have self respect and doing good job , do not run behind one individual , better restart looking for some nice guy , must be initiating to get your attention .

Answer 2

I don't know how this whole business started
Of you thinking that I have been untrue
But if you think that we'd be better parted
It's gonna hurt me but I'd break away from you
Well just give me the sign and I will be gone
That's how much I feel for you baby
How much well I need your touch
How much I live I live for your loving
That's how much that's how much that's how much

Sleep alone and late at night I am dreaming
Of the togetherness that seems to leaving me oh no
It ain't long then I kiss some more
If you'll only love me like you have before
Ahh take hold of my hand I will be forgiven

That's how much I feel feel for you baby
How much I need your touch
How much I live for your loving
That's how much that's how much that's how much

So you try to stay in the middle
And then cry - cry just a little
Then we both realize how foolish you been
I've been trying to make amends
But your pulling all the strings
'Cause that's how much - that's how much
That's how much

How's your life been going on
I got a wife now years we been going strong
Oh no there's just something I got to say
Sometimes when we make love I still see your face
Just try to recall when we were as one yeah

That's how much I feel for you baby
How much I need I need your touch
How much I live I live for your loving

Every fantasy was about you, us, together again

Answer 3

yes let him to know how you feel ,it's better than being wonder all the time!