i respect him but he deceived. he has realised but not said anything to me. i want o do somthing which makes me more respectable & a good human being.
2006-11-28 20:47:39 · 13 answers · asked by vpvp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just forget it. and dont mention it again.
that way you are the better person
2006-11-28 20:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you want to keep your friendship obviously, well you have to come out and be honest with him, there will always be something that will eat at you if you don't, and its only human nature to have these problems without problems what would life be, no one is perfect and no one is ever right, so give it a chance and see where it goes, because you need to know the reason he deceived you in the first place, sometimes bad influence of others can fog someones judgments.
2006-11-28 22:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may already feel uncomfortable about what he did. Just let it go. That's being the bigger person.
Some time in the near future, though, you could find a way to mention (maybe in the context of some other situation) how life is short, you understand that people mess up sometimes, and some things aren't worth holding grudges over. That would be your way of offering him a closure on whatever he did and letting him know it is no longer hanging out there between you.
2006-11-28 21:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A deceiver and a betrayer are not friends. The truth is that you want to get back at him. That's only natural. This holier than thou act is your way of attempting it. Don't believe the disingenuous attempt will work. Slugging the guy in the nose would. That would be real.
2006-11-28 21:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want, you can talk to him about it, try to get an apology, but after that, try to avoid him, don't stick close to this guy as much. He isn't a real friend if he deceived you. Be polite and civil, say hi if he says hi, smile back if he smiles, but don't trust him as much. Maybe that will make him realize that trust and friendships are important and valuable.
2006-11-28 21:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong so you are already a good respectable person. You will preserve yours, and his, dignity and respect by staying quiet. No need to prove anything. Just forget about it. Nothing needs to be said or done. It won't happen again. Will it?
2006-11-28 21:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a close friend discuss with him why he upset you and once you have got your point across let it go and dont bring it up again. If hes worth your friendship he will improve his attitude whilst friends are supposed to always be there for us we also have to remember no one is perfect. If you can get past this your friendship will be all the more stronger. If he does it again you may seriously have to reconsider your relationship
2006-11-28 21:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by you knowing and him knowing that you know is enough. You dont' need to take out revenge or get him back. I have a friend that does this quite often to and i catch him. Pisses mme off he is this way. and I let him know , and sometimes i keep it to myself but i know his style.
Why stoop and be sneaky like them. Those people will not end up to happy in life. as they do this as a daily activity its the only way they know how.
You rise above them and stay who you are.
2006-11-28 21:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know it made you mad. If you hold it in the anger will build and build. Then there wil be a big blow out. And let him know he will never ever do it again
2006-11-28 21:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Double D's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you forgive him unconditionally as long as it does not happen again
2006-11-28 20:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋