Me and my wife have been fighting alot lately usually with me going to jail at the end of it all. I love my wife I just get irritated with her and cant control myself. If I go back to jail it could be prison. So now that my wife knows that she throws things and tries to hit me...Should I call 911 on her to defend myself if she goes on her temper rage?
2006-11-28 20:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me as if she is the one losing control. Throwing things..??....like a 2 year old temper fit....commit her to a mental ward, call the cops, do whatever to make her grow up but darn sure don't go to jail over someone resorting to foolish infantile antics. I detest men who hit women but I don't know how men put up with some of these awful controlling dictator wives, sounds like her parents should have beat her or done something, you aren't dealing with a civilized adult.
2006-11-28 20:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! do no longer call 911. How old are you? 911 is basically used in case you spot a fire, a guy or woman needs scientific interest or is being harmed, or if components is being damages (a housebreaking). AKA an emergency, which subsequently isn't. did no longer you learn this in 0.33 grade? go away an nameless observe for his spouse in case you quite need to get entangled (yet that would basically make issues worse i think)
2016-12-14 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by shoaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't the logical step be for one of you to remove yourself from the situation?
Why would you want to stay there knowing that she can have you thrown in jail with one more call? Furthermore, why would she want to be with you knowing that you have so many problems that you can't control yourself around her.
Leave.. Get out. Get a divorce and move on. This relationship is nothing more than a fighting ring.
2006-11-28 20:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why risk it? You know she is provoking you so get out of the house. If you can't control your temper then for your sake you need to leave. Why stay around if she is bound to make trouble for you? If the cops are called too many times someone is liable to get locked up. Either way, you'll both be separated. Love aside you need to choose. Either by force or by choice.
2006-11-28 22:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a battered woman is no little issue! I'd be more worried that she'll shoot you while defending herself! It happens all the time! It's funny how a victim can snap on her attacker! Do you have any idea how many women are in prison for killing their batterer? Look it up!
2006-11-28 20:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there can i ask why you 2 are together if this is what youre relationship consists of ......i hope there are no kids involved in this mess ,why do you not have a trial break from each other if possible and seek some counselling as you both have some issues that must be dealt with .....this is not good for both of you .....in fact have you both not thought of calling it a day with this relationship as it really doesnt seem to be working .......and not one of you should be hitting each other ...
2006-11-28 20:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its to late to be asking this question buddy... now that the popo and courts know ur name... you SHOULD NOT defend ur slef.. ask for it- let her hit you- let her destroy the house.. then call the cops
why dont u just end it- and control urself.. i dont care who it is- i would go to jail for noone- so maybe u should consider some time apart. if you hittin on her- get help prick
2006-11-28 20:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her from a distance in freedom rather from a distance in prison.
get out of harm's way by find a life of friendship with someone who cares about YOU.
It took me 17 years to discover that love is kind, not mean spirited
2006-11-28 20:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Joe v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control yourself? So you've beaten her up before and now your worried you'll go to prison? I would try to get you locked up again too
2006-11-28 20:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to be seperated for awhile if it has turned to this
2006-11-28 20:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by -- 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋