thats why nice, sweet, caring, innocent guys always finish last, because girls always date the jerks & yet they always complain "my ex was a jerk to me", or "oh he cheated on me" or they are like "why can't I find a nice, sweet guy", they say they hate jerks, but look at who they are going out with, I'm a nice guy, at least I consider myself one, I never make fun of people, I don't like to fight people, I've only been in one physical fight my whole life, & I got beat because I didn't wanna get involved in the first place, I believe fighting is always the last answer to a problem, I'm a gentle person, man, why can't girls open their eyes more clear?, why do they fail to notice us nice guys?
2006-11-28 20:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm also a high school graduate, I come from a good family that makes good money, I'm going to college, well I'm only 18, gonna be 19 in a month
2006-11-28 20:25:21 · update #1
not all girls are that way
2006-11-28 20:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by :):):) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that we fail to notice you nice guys. WE aren't hypocrites if you want to know. Hypocrites are a whole new definition for us girls. Hypocrites are backstabbers and two faces.
People make mistakes dear. Girls when they are less mature usually go for cute guys and some of them are usually up to something bad. So when we got dumped in a horrible way, we complain. Who doesn't!!!
I heard guys complaining that their girlfriends are pure bitches because they fall for the bad kind. We nice girls always ask why do guys love meanies and not those nice ones.
Consider it Mister. Not every girl love the nice ones and not every guy love the good girls. It really depends on the taste of each and everyone.
No point blaming it on girls like us, and this question hits right through my face as a 16 year old.
2006-11-28 20:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it goes back to animal instinct. Woman go for teh man who can provide for her and her offspring. They want someone to protect them (fighting) and provide (money)... Plus the thing with girls dating jackass's is... When the jackass pays attention to her, she feels like the only girl in the world, when he's an ***, she hurts, but he will come back and be the sweetest guy and make her feel special again... Nice guys are always there, so we never feel special. We feel like "just another" girl, like you could treat ANY girl that way. Jackass's "may" treat you better then another past gf, which makes her feel GOOD and better!
Basically we're screwed up, and I feel bad for guys, but I do the same, don't know why, even though i know why... Just happens.... until we grow up and learn lol..
2006-11-28 20:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Have fun. Take what you get and enjoy it. Don't worry about tommorow. Let the woman make the first move. And the last move. A good relationship, friendship, whatever. If you both want to be serious, good! If not be friends! Be happy with yourself first! Love yourself, take care of yourself. And someone will love you much more seriously.
Everybody is normal till you get to know them :)
2006-11-28 20:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason why some guys always go for the shallow, stupid gold-diggers with the big boobs instead of the kind, thoughtful, intelligent girls who might not be supermodel material. Some people, male and female, are just lousy judges of character.
2006-11-28 20:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are targetting the wrong type of girls ?
Rethink your environment and check girls in different places, different societies and different mentality. You will sure find nice girls.
2006-11-28 20:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by marechal_00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your targetting the wrong girls?? not all girls are hypocrits!
plus, some girls just like guys who are dangerous, whuile some like the considerate, while others like -others-. its just that different peple attract different people. and just bc they havent gotten to you now doesnt mean they wont... youll find someone.
2006-12-04 09:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody ever cheated on me, my ex was never a jerk to me, he was just a poor loser, that's why i dumped him, i found tonns of nice guys (some of them were just taken, but that was never a problem) and i do not understand what does it mean a jerk or a nice guy. for me a jerk is a cheap man who has no money or career or education or manners or brains. i hate jerks. see him immediately. nice guy is the one with money, career, education, brains, manners and beauty. so maybe u re confusing smth here. cos u never told anything about your career, education or beauty. all the rest is bull''''
2006-11-28 20:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Because we're hypocrites ? Because we're jerks ?
2006-11-28 20:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Can not generalize it..
2006-11-28 20:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋